You don't want to. Some are ok but a lot of them are the definition of trouble.Originally Posted by LemurianLo
Easiest way to win them over is money and sex appeal. If you have something they want, they will seek you out.
You don't want to. Some are ok but a lot of them are the definition of trouble.
Easiest way to win them over is money and sex appeal. If you have something they want, they will seek you out.
Have a hot bod and a big dick. You have nothing to offer them psychologically.
I had sex with my conflictor. It wasn't satisfying. I imagine it would be the same for you.
@Eudaimonia Please share your wisdom on this matter. What would it take for an SLI to win an EIE heart?
Give me advice plz, thx.
If @Eudaimonia were an IEE, you could fix his car. But since EIEs don't have cars, you're SOL.
Well, not Eudaimonia's heart specifically, that'd be gay. I mean advice for an EIE ladies hearts.
I remember this thread lol. Your interaction with that Thor guy made me laugh. I wonder what ever happened to himwe seem very similar.
The question I wondered reading this was "why?"
Why would an SLI be interested in an EIE? I would like to think this is possible but why would either party be interested?
But what an EIE looks for in a partner is someone who can handle their intense 4D Fe emotions and give them that Ti counter balance it. The SLI can certainly give that Ti. However, I am really hard to be around and I can throw tantrums and fits that I don't think an SLI would want to be around nor would they find it that endearing or cute.
An EIE woman is going to be high maintenance, they need attention and validation of your love in many forms that I don't think an SLI would really want to live with.
If you find an EIE you really have a connection with then you will need to be patient with her need for Fe validation and not so much give practical Te advice (at least at first) because these are things they'd rather not think about. The EIE will need to be patient with the SLIs quiet and reserved nature and understand that just because they didn't say that they love her or didn't smile in the right way when they saw her, it's not because they hate her and don't want to be with her.
Boy this would be a rough relationship that would need a lot of work. Basically try to resemble an LSI as much as possible (at least at first so she can grow to understand the real you more).
The Barnum or Forer effect is the tendency for people to judge that general, universally valid statements about personality are actually specific descriptions of their own personalities. A "universally valid" statement is one that is true of everyone—or, more likely, nearly everyone. It is not known why people tend to make such misjudgments, but the effect has been experimentally reproduced.
The psychologist Paul Meehl named this fallacy "the P.T. Barnum effect" because Barnum built his circus and dime museum on the principle of having something for everyone. It is also called "the Forer effect" after its discoverer, the psychologist Bertram R. Forer, who modestly dubbed it "the fallacy of personal validation".
I'm afraid is most likely part of his personality and you are just looking condescendingly at his Fe PoLR like if it were a disease.
Tommy walked into the thread and put the Betas on a leash, i love u dude
no prob, I didn't take it negatively, just saying that I think that's how Fe perceive Fe PoLR more likely anything else.
It's weird to me, even as an EIE, for people to suggest that you should have to go through all these charades and characters and acts to try and win over this EIE. I don't think people should have to act as different types or pretend to use different functions to try and woo others. EIE are pretty much about playing different characters, or different versions of themselves, but I wouldn't want that to seep over into my love life, if that makes sense. This would just lead to disillusionment from both sides and end up becoming tiring on the couple, regardless of who's doing it.
IMO. I don't know much about your situation. Are you friends with her? Are you close to her? You obviously don't have to answer, but if yes, then the chances are that she might already like you, and that you two probably already have common interests and ground. She's just a woman, after all. She can't really do much in the beginning except maybe bitch and moan. React accordingly to that as you see appropriate.
Good luck.
a poem i just made, lets see if it works on EIE's
hi vex
ur a hex
wanna hav sex?
I like this poem.
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