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    Smile Types of people you have been attracted to?

    chronologically:

    Unknown type possible strong Ne
    LIE sp/sx
    SEE sp/sx
    SEI
    Unknown type possible Alpha NT
    IEI sp/sx 9
    ILE sx/sp 728
    IEI so/sx 9
    SLI sp/so 6 or 9
    ILI sx/so 9 or 5

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    based on my best guess as to their types.

    E: 4
    I: 6

    S: 3
    N: 6

    T: 5
    F: 4

    J: 2
    P: 8

    Moderate preference for Introverts; moderate preference for Intuitive types; slight preference for Thinking types; strong preference for Perceiving types.

    Of course, it does not necessarily mean that "in sum" I like INTp, as I have only ever been attracted to one. Plus I do believe attraction as well as chemistry go beyond ITR. Just something to reflect on anyway, I suppose.
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    In terms of my romantic attractions, 6 or 7 SLE-Tis and 4 or 5 ILE-Tis; the SLE-Tis were longer substantial romantic (and sexual) attractions than all the ILE-Tis, but only because it was clear none (except for one) of the ILE-Tis wanted anything to do with me. And one IEI-Ni but not as attracted to as I was the ILE-Tis and the SLE-Tis... when I moved, it was over. And one LSI-Se.

    As for just short term erection-inducers, very few deltas and very few gammas, while ILE-Tis give me more erections than any other type then LSI-Se and SLE and then some Beta NFs. Despite being an Fi-base and Fi subtype, I don't have to love someone romantically in order to want them to fart on me or to insert my tongue and my penis in their butthole. Maybe it has something to do with the autism.

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    Mild Crush
    Mutual Interest
    Particularly Desirable Friendship

    IEE
    probably IXFx
    SLE
    EII
    EIE
    ILI E4 or E6
    EII-Ne E4
    SLI 7-4-9
    probably ILE, 7-4-8
    ILI 5-4-8
    EII-Ne, 4-9-6
    LSE E6

    That's all I could recall for now. I may have missed a couple. But I experience significantly less attraction than the average person, and I don't know whether any would qualify as "substantial attraction."

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    I have been attracted to weird guys. A lot of times they are very different from me. I'm sure I've been attracted to my conflictor way too many times.

    ILE
    IEI
    LIE
    LII

    I think I have an attraction to sociopathic guys.

    Right not I'm married to my dual, but I don't find him very sexy.

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    hmm..

    SEI 9w1
    SEI 2w1
    LII 9w1 or SLI 5w6 i cant tell
    IEI 4w5 (or 4 fix idk) x2
    ILI 4w3
    EII idk type prob 9
    SLI 9w8

    The pattern is introverts and mostly ego types from enneagram. I think a lot of these were sx as well.

    Oh, ILEs get a special mention. They rile me up which results in a lot of love/hate relationships on my end, in which some sort of attraction is involved briefly.

    Edited for mutual attraction haha. The last two are crushes I haven't had the chance to interact with much due to ~covid~
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    Delta NF and Gamma SF + ILI. Enneagram core types: 9, 6, 5 and 4. Social blind, always.

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    girls with big boobies and butts that were nice and smelled good

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    "just for fun" is not strongly linked with types, but more with a sexual attraction
    Types examples: video bloggers, actors

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    Almost exclusively Gamma SF/NT and Delta NF. One Beta NF, too.

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    The kinds I'm drawn to are par for the course, though with a few odd ones.

    Disclaimer: These are for individuals I know of the type and not meant to represent the type as a whole.

    ESE men and women (My first crushes were a girl and boy of this type. Always like every ESE I meet with one exception at worst)
    ILE men (Usually in a platonic way. We can talk for hours, but I know it would be a nightmare if we lived together. Nothing would get done)
    LII-Ne women (Same as above. Ti types come off a little cold, though)
    EIE women (It all starts with that smile and it's downhill from there)
    IEE women (Smart and funny, though deep and pained. Hate to admit I find myself backing away once they start discussing emotions)
    SLI men (Know one who is an amazing cook, but taken)
    One SLE man (He always treated me like a little sister, though, and I wasn't a fan when he got violent, so that attraction went away fast)

    For interest sake, I always attract these types.

    SEE women (So many of these in my life and they're always prodding me for a reaction)
    IEE men (Same as the women, though we usually stay platonic so emotions aren't usually a factor)
    LSE men and women (Though most of them treat me like a student who has so much to learn)
    LIE men (Same as above)
    LII men (The only one I know likes me because I'm a gamer. A "nice guy", if you catch my meaning)
    ILI men (A jerk. That is all)
    ESE men and women (I usually accidently ignore them when they approach me, though)

    Enneagram-wise, I would say I'm attracted to 5 and 2, though 8s usually approach me first.
    Instinct-wise, social blind is best.

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    Let's see...
    LII-Ne, probably type 1
    ILE-Ne

    I've had numerous crushes on guys, but that was based on looks. These were based on looks and personalities. In general, I'm most attracted to Deltas and Alphas.

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    in chronological order
    SLE
    LSI
    ILE
    SEE
    EIE

    bolded is mutual

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    I haven’t been attracted to many but the ones I’ve been attracted to end up as my mirror (LSI) or comparison (SEE). I think there were initial attractions from identical (SLE) but we quickly fall into a friendship of sorts. I don’t trust easily but eerily, with other SLEs, it’s like oh wow, my long lost twin! They strangely tell me the same thing.

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    I've been attracted to every type at some point, I was cursed with a high libido. Mutual, open attraction has only been with SEE, IEE, and EII. My strongest general attractions are to Se egos, weakest general attractions are to LII/SEI/EII. With the conflictor they're at least interesting for being completely opposite of me, though I rarely meet them anywhere.

    In enneagram, the strength of my attractions are: 8>7>6>4>2>1>5>3>9 sx>sp>so

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    I’ve never been attracted to ethical types. LSI, SLE, LIE, LSE, ILI & enneagram 6&8
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    EIE, SLE, SEI, SLI, IEE, SEE, ILI in no particular order.
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    SLI surplus.
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    I find women of all types attractive, but there are some that I realize we would not have a very lasting personal connection.

    I attract SEIs very often. I like them fine.

    When I was younger I would play around with Fi types usually EII and IEE and would always be amazed by what they find offensive. I never took it seriously until they would outright come out and say how horrible I was, which would make me roll my eyes. They are too touchy for me.

    I can't say that I have a specific type I have liked. I have always been attracted to moodiness though. I want to see emotion and capricious moods, that is what attracts me like a fly to honey. I've never been able to figure out why. I want to see demure shyness, reluctance and then surrender. That could be any type but it fits ILI and IEI.

    SLE is probably the absolute worst relations I've ever had regardless of gender. Almost every long term interaction with these types will end in confrontation.

    I have good relations with ILE and LII, but never romantic, neither party would be interested.

    I find LIEs cute. I definitely like EIE women.

    I dont think about LSE or SLI at all.

    I can't think of an interaction with an SEE.

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    SXE 8w7 ex - we were two completely different people, friends looked at us like "What are they doing together?"
    SLE 8w?? - reminded me so much of my ex, seemed to like me for different reasons
    SLE 8w7 - girl wanna be tough guy
    SLE - gorgeous but conversation was very flat
    SEI - ^ same
    ESI 9w8 ex - best love ever
    ILI - claimed type 8 seemed type 4 ex - best girlfriend ever
    ILI - she started it
    ILI 8 - major bitch,
    LSI - she works out and it shows
    LSI - looked adorable but personality was too tomboyish
    LII - fun tons of back and forth banter
    LSE - highly attractive but was easy to talk to, which is rare
    SLI 1(?) - married woman, avoided like the plague
    LIE 8w9 - married woman, avoided like the plague
    IEE - married woman, avoided like the plague
    ESE - random stranger led to 5 hours of banter

    I promise I don't like type 8s.
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    I always find EIIs very cute and charming, I'm not interested in them romantically but oh, the platonic crush is strong. I simply adore them.

    I think I've been into an LIE once. Or twice, if that other guy was an LIE as well and not an LSE.

    But most of the time it's EIEs that get my attention. They're my guilty pleasure type of crush. I doubt it's possible for me to ever keep their attention if I do receive it tho, which makes me sad. I always feel like they're this unattainable fantasy creatures that I'm not good (interesting) enough for.
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    Mb mostly Ip's. They have mysterious energy and easygoingness.

    For some reason some gamma SF's have shown interest in me. ESI's in the end want to fix me, I think... so they peg for public execution.

    I have known one eccentric ESE. It felt like she was waiting for me around every corner at work ready to jump in front of me. Seemed cool.
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    Most to least:

    IEIs are the most consistently attractive to me. EIEs come close as far as consistency goes, but sometimes I'm less attracted to them and sometimes I'm more attracted to them. EIEs often seem to like me too, which is a plus.

    IEEs I also tend to find really attractive. They and IEIs can be annoying at times though.

    SEIs are usually attractive.

    Next are SEEs. I probably wouldn't want to be in a relationship with one, but they tend to look good.

    Then LSEs and LIIs. LSEs have a positive and focused energy I like. Female LIIs have a faint wispiness to them I find attractive. I'm pretty consistently attracted to them, but only moderately.

    Finally there are SLIs and EIIs. Something about how SLIs move can be enthralling. But I tend to like them less on a personal level than SEIs or LSEs. With EIIs I prefer Ne-subtypes; the Fi-subtypes I don't really find very attractive.
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    ESI, SEI, ILE when I was younger. SEE for a long time. LIE platonically for longer than that.

    Learned early on without typology that I do better with extroverts that can push me out of my comfort zone a little bit. I find Eps somewhat fit that but are ultimately spontaneous in a way I can't keep up with. Ej just strikes that perfect balance of "I planned out a week's itinerary in advance but I have allocated this time here as a buffer etc etc..."
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    IEE and EIE and nothing beyond these really. I must add that my interest in the EIE vanished after few interactions. They are often not engaging enough for me (too victimy always waiting for an aggressor or assertive way to show interest mb). I'm perhaps too lazy, indifferent and "cold" for always being on the "hunt".
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    Quote Originally Posted by Akira View Post
    IEE and EIE and nothing beyond these really. I must add that my interested in the EIE vanished after few interactions. They are often not engaging enough for me (too victimy always waiting for an aggressor or assertive way to show interest mb). I'm perhaps too lazy, indifferent and "cold" for always being on the "hunt".
    EIE and IEE are opposites in that regard, IEE's often take on "aggressor-like" approaches while EIE's are plants.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Loaded Piss Gun View Post
    EIE and IEE are opposites in that regard, IEE's often take on "aggressor-like" approaches while EIE's are plants.
    From what I've seen actually, EIEs are quite likely to be more on the aggressive side than one would expect, seeing they have Ni in their ego block. IEEs - not really.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tuathe View Post
    From what I've seen actually, EIEs are quite likely to be more on the aggressive side than one would expect, seeing they have Ni in their ego block. IEEs - not really.
    Well, i'm an IEE and often am the one approaching women, unless you meant aggressive as in raping them or throwing yourself on top out of nowhere, if that's the case, maybe you can put your "not really" there, little EII.
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    'Go the distance' attraction? a gazillion ESI. And they all look totally different.

    'Passing or partial-only' attraction? (physical or one aspect of personality or their behavior) every other type. I've met a lotta likeable ppl, and they all look totally different, too.

    (deletes stories about 7 or so ESI)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Loaded Piss Gun View Post
    Well, i'm an IEE
    No, you're not, "Aaron".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loaded Piss Gun View Post
    EIE and IEE are opposites in that regard, IEE's often take on "aggressor-like" approaches while EIE's are plants.
    To me neither seem really "aggresive" in that regard, but EIE and IEIs seem to look for someone reassuring them constantly and making the first move while IEEs usually do the first move easily.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tuathe View Post
    No, you're not, "Aaron".
    Who says so? You dumb bitch? Back up your claim of my type, bimbo.
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    From most to least often I would say:

    SLE
    ILI
    ILE
    SLI
    EII (I don't know why...)
    SEE
    LSI and EIE is a tie

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    I'd say the types that show up most often on that list are ESE,SEI,SEE and the odd logical. The SFs are a natural, mindless sort of attraction and the logicals are kind of good with exposing yourself to new ways of being and doing.

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    in chronological order:

    SEE-Se (supervisor from Hades)
    IEI-Ni (human sudoku)
    LSE-Te (are we really duals tho?)
    SLI-Si (meh)
    ESI-Se (the ghost)
    LII-Ti (current)

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    isfp, enfj, estp, intp, entj..and others but those ones stand out. I think isfp is the type I’m attracted to most.
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