Originally Posted by
Frddy
Your experience with your friend is not due to her being ESFp, but due to her being a women.
Jokes aside, I have heard similar things about obvious SEE's, and I have seen similar but milder things personally with SEE's. They are sometimes the scum on earth and if one day we discover gene editing and the genetic base of personality types, they should be eliminated from society just to avoid the risk of having that version of SEE's. Whatever thing they might be decent at other types do better, if we talk about doing fucked up things SLE's are better, if it's about selling you something EIE's or even IEE's are better, and if it's about lifting spirits then most ethical types are superior to them, etc.
We might have to avoid behavioral socionics and focus more on education, upbringing, genetics, culture, and the psychological composition of the person at hand (A.K.A Big 5, Psychosophy, psychoanalysis etc) as well as mental disorders (the things you mention seem common for people with malignant narcissistic personality disorder). Socionics is about how you process the information the outside world feeds you and how you organize it, create it yourself and use it to impact your inner world or your outside enviroment. There are workaholic SEI's and lazy LIE's, all kinds of people might share the same psychological skeleton (sociotype).