Originally Posted by
MaliaFee
Well, we have an IEE bass player in our band (which, by the way, is made up of: INTj boyfriend is vocals/guitar; ISFp lead guitar; ESFj (me) on keys<---I KNOW!!! It's almost a complete quadra!; drummer, not sure on his type). He comes to practice and appears quite drawn to me; shows me a bunch of attention. That is, until I chat with him in return, and then it's oddly hard to get him to listen to even one thing I say... he's out sight within a less than a minute of me responding to a question he asks or just making pleasantries. God forbid I say something of substance -- I don't think he can bear to listen! It's a weird thing. He's all over me with compliments and even will be overtly flirtatious after one beer -- until I open my goddamn mouth (haha!).