Taken from a popular piece on ESFp INTp duals:

Sometimes the temperamental ESFP grows tired of the coldness and seriousness of his dual. In such cases, he takes a “break on the side”, but usually this doesn’t last long. INTJ is a reliable partner who can understand and forgive, but under one condition: he must see sincere repentance – and who better than ESFP can demonstrate this? Thus, INTJ often manages to stabilize his relations with the easily distracted and impermanent in his feelings ESFP.


Can someone who has seen or experienced a SEE-ILI dual couple explain to me what that “breaks on the side” bit is about? I keep seeing this and similar things written and I wonder if I’m really an ILI, because I don’t tolerate two timing.