
Originally Posted by
BandD
Well technically, behaving that way isn't self-developing. It's other-developing. It's wanting to turn a type you don't like into something else to make other people comfortable, a demonstrative function into an egoic one. That's what it smells like to me, the dark side of it anyway.
In other words, behaving that way will make people who naturally don't like you tolerate you- as they are falling more for a facade of change. 'Who you are' still isn't developing much nor are you being loved for who you really are, so it sucks.
You already use your demonstrative function and suggestive function a lot naturally so I'm not sure about having to develop that.
Other-development has its uses though when people get off on psychologically tormenting you and you to need to manipulate them to get them off your back. But the bad side of Other Development is it puts you in a situation where a conflicting type gets too much control and say of your own life.