Member Questionnaire 1 (itseffinwarm)
What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty is something you appreciate with the eyes. It's also something you appreciate with your heart 💓
Love have different forms. Familial love, or friendly love are the type of love that lasts forever ❤️
There's also romantic love which is unfortunately not forever and it makes relationship very complicated.
What are your most important values?
Honesty, Genuinity, Respect
Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
Christianity and Stoicism.

Because it makes me a better person. And my weakness are solved by these two beliefs
I think I have bipolar II (undiagnosed) and, self treatment like these two helps me a lot
Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
War and militaries. I think the reason for war in the past is lack of communication.
Thanks to the internet and phones, leaders of different countries can agree to something in a civil way. They can avoid miscommunication now and this creates peace

Power is a privilege to do something big.
What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
I like wisdoms and philosophy a lot.

My interests are psychology, philosophy, etc
Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
Yeah I like talking about health. I always take care of my health and ask people to take care of their health as well.

Because health is wealth. It's better than wealth honestly
What do you think of daily chores?
Daily chores is necessary for self discipline
Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
I like psychology thriller.

Hmm. I'm reading Stoicism books. I recently watched reality shows and some animes as well. Depends on what looks good.
What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
What made me cry? Is when I'm making stupid decisions in life to the point that I don't respect myself

What made me smile? Hmm. Cats
Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
Sense of belonging
What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
Weakness is dealing with people. I don't have patience

Hmm. I think I tend to make decisions out of emotions or feelings in the past and I hated myself for it
What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
I think I'm quite a strong person. Like I don't really quit or feel down over stupid things in life.. like when I fail on something, I don't wallow on it too much and I don't give up.

I like myself for taking advantage of the opportunities that's given to me.
In what areas of your life would you like help?
Well mental and emotional health. I have bipolar.
Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
Yes. When things are always the same. And I don't experience new things in life I feel stuck and when I keep on doing the same things over again I feel depressed
What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
I like honest humble and genuine people

I don't like dishonest and arrogant people
How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
I like sex a lot.

Well I want a partner to love me genuinely. And who is loyal
If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
Hmm. My main concern is shall I be a good mother to my child

Well I'll raise her in a Christian way. Because the mainstream teaching is bad
A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
Outward would be to at first get kind of pissed off lol.
And then I know there's nothing going to happen if argument persists since he/she already got different views opposite of me.
I'll just let go and be done by acknowledge I we have different opinions and beliefs so be it, there's no sense of arguing about it

Inward is to not let it get in to you..
Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
My relationship to society is just by being a working individual. Riding with the flow..

I see people as weak stupid humans

One social problem: being idiots
How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
Well if they're comfortable with me, were friends.

Well it takes comfort and being ourselves
How do you behave around strangers?
Hmm.. nothing really.. normal I guess.