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    How does it look?

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    Frequently interrupt other people in mid-sentence while they're talking to tell them their own opinion, for instance.

    Disposition to impatience and strive to take control.
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    I know LSE men who like to play competitive sports with a lot of physical contact like rugby and soccer/football. I also know some that like to smoke sigarettes and pop pils before they go out. But the best example off demon. Se and polr Ni i can give is when one guy said to me "Alright playtime is over, lets start working!" eventhough the prework was not finished. (Once we did start he basically carried the team).

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    I have an LSE teacher, and she definitely shows some Fi here and there, like adoring us and calling us her little children, but my christ does she dominate the room. She speaks, and everyoen listens. The bell rings, but if she needs to talks ome more, she would immediately stand up and say "no leaves yet" and then once she's finished speaking, show would say "now you're dismissed." Nonetheless, a very lovely teacher since she showers us with "you can do it!" and "I think you have potential."

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    Usually very guarding of their own rights and other's.
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    Demonstrative Se equals compensatory machismo...it can look very similar to Se-ego block for people that have no street smarts or actual experience in the guts of life.

    Gordon Ramsay (LSE-Te 3w2 so/sp) is a great example of Se demonstrative. He's really a pussy but talks like a tough guy. He'll talk shit to a certain point. Once shit hits the fan, though, he's out...he's the guy trying to break everything up.

    The Se-demonstrative style of oneupsmanship lacks a willingness to play the brutal power card in order to prevail. It's not their go-to. SLEs are constantly scratching their itch for the jugular even if it means permanently closing a door...burning a bridge. LSEs (unless all is lost) typically leaves an open door. Thus, they don't display that itch for the jugular, unless, as I said they have hit rock bottom.

    Tiffany Pollard (LSE-Te 6w7 so/sx) from Flavor of Love is another good example of Se Demonstrative. A lot of Tiffany's schtick is just Se-Demonstrative like a Gordon Ramsay or Beth Chapman. When shit hits the fan and the time to throw down is imminent their tone turns more deferential as they try to wiggle their way out of the line of fire.

    I've seen it a hundred times.

    Of course these gigantic pussies can pass for Se-ego among people who are wet behind the ears. Wet behind the ears typically means people who lack street smarts. For people that lack street smarts Se-demonstrative is indistinguishable from Se-lead and yes, even sometimes Se-creative lol!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kill4Me View Post
    Demonstrative Se equals compensatory machismo...it can look very similar to Se-ego block for people that have no street smarts or actual experience in the guts of life.

    Gordon Ramsay (LSE-Te 3w2 so/sp) is a great example of Se demonstrative. He's really a pussy but talks like a tough guy. He'll talk shit to a certain point. Once shit hits the fan, though, he's out...he's the guy trying to break everything up.

    The Se-demonstrative style of oneupsmanship lacks a willingness to play the brutal power card in order to prevail. It's not their go-to. SLEs are constantly scratching their itch for the jugular even if it means permanently closing a door...burning a bridge. LSEs (unless all is lost) typically leaves an open door. Thus, they don't display that itch for the jugular, unless, as I said they have hit rock bottom.

    Tiffany Pollard (LSE-Te 6w7 so/sx) from Flavor of Love is another good example of Se Demonstrative. A lot of Tiffany's schtick is just Se-Demonstrative like a Gordon Ramsay or Beth Chapman. When shit hits the fan and the time to throw down is imminent their tone turns more deferential as they try to wiggle their way out of the line of fire.

    I've seen it a hundred times.

    Of course these gigantic pussies can pass for Se-ego among people who are wet behind the ears. Wet behind the ears typically means people who lack street smarts. For people that lack street smarts Se-demonstrative is indistinguishable from Se-lead and yes, even sometimes Se-creative lol!
    Do you ever say anything positive? I'm just wondering.

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    Quote Originally Posted by COOL AND MANLY View Post
    Do you ever say anything positive? I'm just wondering.
    Sle is a negativist after all

    Everything he writes is a cope for his ego it's pretty interesting really

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    Quote Originally Posted by kingslayer View Post
    Sle is a negativist after all

    Everything he writes is a cope for his ego it's pretty interesting really
    They are?
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    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Idk my husband will shop and buy me a pretty dress every so often. He’s into fashion and has great style. I don’t care for clothes. He knows what he likes and dislikes in food. He can stick up for himself and is no pushover, opposite of me.
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
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    Quote Originally Posted by Beautiful sky View Post
    Idk my husband will shop and buy me a pretty dress every so often. He’s into fashion and has great style. I don’t care for clothes. He knows what he likes and dislikes in food. He can stick up for himself and is no pushover, opposite of me.
    I can see LSEs wanting their mates to dress certain ways and being overly particular about their food; many seem to like possessions, and or to be seen as important and well cared for. I can see EIIs as not overly fussy about style or food but I haven't met one who was a true pushover although they may sometimes feign weakness for effect. Between a self-righteous EII and an angry LSE, I'd give even odds.......

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    Demo se types are by far the pushiest in my experience . They use too much se to get their way it's not as smooth as se bases

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beautiful sky View Post
    Idk my husband will shop and buy me a pretty dress every so often. He’s into fashion and has great style. I don’t care for clothes. He knows what he likes and dislikes in food. He can stick up for himself and is no pushover, opposite of me.
    It must be so nice to just admit that all willy nilly .

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    Quote Originally Posted by WinnieW View Post
    Frequently interrupt other people in mid-sentence while they're talking to tell them their own opinion, for instance.

    Disposition to impatience and strive to take control.
    Yes this. It's really fucking annoying

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    They say insensitive jokes and statements. Can cheat, drink beeeeeeeer and play football. Also interrupt ppl during arguments or discussions. Try to solve or take in their own hands every problem (even if not their issue).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tommy View Post
    They say insensitive jokes and statements. Can cheat, drink bear and play football. Also interrupt ppl during arguments or discussions. Try to solve or take in their own hands every problem (even if not their issue).
    I especially liked the bolded one. Generates interesting images in my head.
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    Quote Originally Posted by COVID 007 View Post
    I especially liked the bolded one. Generates interesting images in my head.
    Sorry, grammar police.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tommy View Post
    Sorry, grammar police.
    No, I really liked how you accidentally symbolized power there in various plausible forms. It has lots of potential.
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    they use Se as a way to enforce the goals of their leading function, Te, which means theyre stubborn and try to get their way because they think theyre right

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    Quote Originally Posted by sullutac View Post
    they use Se as a way to enforce the goals of their leading function, Te, which means theyre stubborn and try to get their way because they think theyre right
    Right fighters as I call em..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kill4Me View Post
    Gordon Ramsay (LSE-Te 3w2 so/sp) is a great example of Se demonstrative. He's really a pussy but talks like a tough guy. He'll talk shit to a certain point. Once shit hits the fan, though, he's out
    yes.. exactly the ESE's I know.
    i tend to take what people say more seriously, so it took me a while to realize that they don't actually follow through what they say, in this sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rebelondeck View Post
    I can see LSEs wanting their mates to dress certain ways and being overly particular about their food; many seem to like possessions, and or to be seen as important and well cared for. I can see EIIs as not overly fussy about style or food but I haven't met one who was a true pushover although they may sometimes feign weakness for effect. Between a self-righteous EII and an angry LSE, I'd give even odds.......

    a.k.a. I/O
    You do know how EIIs are unable to say no or resist people if their ethics doesn't flag an issue. And some people can just ignore the ethical protests and then the EII cannot do anything at all.

    The ones I've known are very readily obedient and will do everything they are told to do even when that is not in their own interest whatsoever, they'll do it all just because they think the other person has authority. This easily turns into tolerating too much abuse too.

    Also, some of them don't seem to be able to discipline even their own kids and believe unconventional theories about how to raise children by allowing them to do everything, yes literally EVERYTHING.

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    Quote Originally Posted by grumpyvic81 View Post
    You do know how EIIs are unable to say no or resist people if their ethics doesn't flag an issue. And some people can just ignore the ethical protests and then the EII cannot do anything at all.

    The ones I've known are very readily obedient and will do everything they are told to do even when that is not in their own interest whatsoever, they'll do it all just because they think the other person has authority. This easily turns into tolerating too much abuse too.

    Also, some of them don't seem to be able to discipline even their own kids and believe unconventional theories about how to raise children by allowing them to do everything, yes literally EVERYTHING.
    Well, I've met EIIs who were selfish and said "no" more than anything else, and certainly wouldn't let themselves be subjugated; one ran the family like a strict religious order. Altruism has more to do with how one is raised and influenced, and has little to do with type although type can facilitate it given the right set of circumstances. Another possible factor is that all types can be cowed or made obedient or turned into a servant; look at some of the types around the American president....

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    Joe Exotic (Aka "the Tiger King" -- something about Se-demonstrative appeals to a fusion between Royalty & Tigers) is another good example of what I described and documented in the below quotes -- which is blatantly obvious)...Joe Exotic a classic LSE-Te is really a pussy but talks like a tough guy. once shit hit the fan, like when that guy Jeff discovered he was giving himself advances in Jeff's name (or something), all that demonstrative-Se just drained away and the Tiger King's entire demeanor turned more belly-showing deferential as he tried to wiggle his way out of the line of fire:

    Quote Originally Posted by Kill4Me View Post
    Demonstrative Se equals compensatory machismo...it can look very similar to Se-ego block for people that have no street smarts or actual experience in the guts of life.

    Gordon Ramsay (LSE-Te 3w2 so/sp) is a great example of Se demonstrative. He's really a pussy but talks like a tough guy. He'll talk shit to a certain point. Once shit hits the fan, though, he's out...he's the guy trying to break everything up.

    The Se-demonstrative style of oneupsmanship lacks a willingness to play the brutal power card in order to prevail. It's not their go-to. SLEs are constantly scratching their itch for the jugular even if it means permanently closing a door...burning a bridge. LSEs (unless all is lost) typically leaves an open door. Thus, they don't display that itch for the jugular, unless, as I said they have hit rock bottom.

    Tiffany Pollard (LSE-Te 6w7 so/sx) from Flavor of Love is another good example of Se Demonstrative. A lot of Tiffany's schtick is just Se-Demonstrative like a Gordon Ramsay or Beth Chapman. When shit hits the fan and the time to throw down is imminent their tone turns more deferential as they try to wiggle their way out of the line of fire.

    I've seen it a hundred times.

    Of course these gigantic pussies can pass for Se-ego among people who are wet behind the ears. Wet behind the ears typically means people who lack street smarts. For people that lack street smarts Se-demonstrative is indistinguishable from Se-lead and yes, even sometimes Se-creative lol!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kill4Me View Post
    Joe Exotic (Aka "the Tiger King" -- something about Se-demonstrative appeals to a fusion between Royalty & Tigers) is another good example of what I described and documented in the below quotes -- which is blatantly obvious)...Joe Exotic a classic LSE-Te is really a pussy but talks like a tough guy. once shit hit the fan, like when that guy Jeff discovered he was giving himself advances in Jeff's name (or something), all that demonstrative-Se just drained away and the Tiger King's entire demeanor turned more belly-showing deferential as he tried to wiggle his way out of the line of fire:
    I would disagree to all of this 'Se demonsrative is just for show' stuff.
    A lot of se demonstrative people i know are able to use Pressure very well and are aware of the dominance of power. When shtf LSE can have trouble because it's a not very stress resistant type. For ESE i think it is different due to being result type and having a good way of thinking for crisis situations.
    But still, a lot of SE Demonstrative Types are not capable of violence, at least my anecdotal evidence agrees with this.

    I think it is due to not valuing SE and not hanging around SE valuing people nor thinking of SE as an acceptable solution of problems and attacks on the quadra complexes.
    This leads to a lot of SE demo types simply not learning violence,because they usually are very conservative types anyways and are not pulled to typical Beta quadra Gang Hooligan or Skinhead culture stuff or other Gamma types of violent environments or people.
    In Alpha quadra you kill by word, in Delta quadra you enslave the people, in both an violent response is something that will be sanctioned on a democratic and individual level (alpha) or by the collective (delta).

    I do think that the Se demonstrative tough guy act usually does not really work as they would like it to in the other two quaras. Surrounded by Alphas or Deltas who usually dislike violence here means being the big fish in the small pond while your tough guy act cultivated over years is not very usuefull when it clashes with someone who values Ni enough to see through it and Se enough to have fostered skills and/or the ability and quadra complex responses to lift this stuff on the level of escalation you have been implying without ever feeling drawn to it.

    So i somewhat agree with your point, but i think it is more about the cultivation of these kind of abilities and not on how capable you are of cultivating.
    There are good fighters of all types, i even think LSE would be a great TIM for marterial arts, but for most of them there is simply no draw to se stuff and no reason in learning it besides the socially accepted rites in their 'home' environments.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rebelondeck View Post
    Well, I've met EIIs who were selfish and said "no" more than anything else, and certainly wouldn't let themselves be subjugated; one ran the family like a strict religious order. Altruism has more to do with how one is raised and influenced, and has little to do with type although type can facilitate it given the right set of circumstances. Another possible factor is that all types can be cowed or made obedient or turned into a servant; look at some of the types around the American president....

    a.k.a. I/O
    I've not met EIIs like that so far. How did these EIIs achieve that about not getting subjugated when some people really just don't give a rats ass about the moralising? I'm actually curious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by grumpyvic81 View Post
    I've not met EIIs like that so far. How did these EIIs achieve that about not getting subjugated when some people really just don't give a rats ass about the moralising? I'm actually curious.
    I don't know much of their history. The confident ones seemed to be intelligent and educated well beyond a high-school level, and raised to be independent. Now, I've met educated idiots of all types. Ij-types need to be given a lot of space to grow properly and if they're not given it, they seem to get smothered rather easily. Eps also need significant space but they don't seem to be as easily smothered having a more rebellious nature - but they too can get beaten down by circumstance - like trees that can grow straight and tall, or stunted and twisted depending on their environments......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tommy View Post
    Sorry, grammar police.
    I believe you, but Ne sparks some mental visualization. I must take care not to confuse the words "floor" and "flour".
    But walking on flour is less annoying than eating bread baked with the ingredient floor.

    ...and who don't heard about the well known drinks Grizzly juice and Kodiac shake?... but Kodiac shake sounds unhealty to me. I better leave that.

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