Quote Originally Posted by metaiwan
I have had a beneficiary and a benefactor relationship. The benefactor always seemed a really great person to talk to, as long as she kept her moods in control. The Beneficiary kept trying to please me and be my friend but I did not care much for him. I have seen a Benefactor-Beneficiary(INTP,INFJ) relationship which was broken off by the Beneficiary because the INTP seemed too childish and uncaring.
Did you ever wonder whether the INFJ was in fact an ENFJ and represented the INTP's Supervisor?

I share a CRAZY relation of Supervision with one of my aunt's. You seem to capture the reason why I distance myself from her... she is excessively childish and uncaring...not to mention opportunistic.

Of course, I can see how those characteristics could turn anyone off and want to leave a relationship of any kind.