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I don't know. I met my SLI not long ago when I was like, in really hard hard times, and it still works. I don't think there is a formula for that. But yeah. I left a lot of vices behind, thanks Cthulhu. I used to be kind of an addict before, so i'm glad I met her when I no longer was one, so that's cool.
consentingadult, are you saying that the only reason to be in a relationship with a woman is sex?
I mean, sex is very, very important to me in a relationship, but if it were the only thing I wanted, I'd just hire it out. It would be a lot cheaper.
I thought LIEs always hired out their duals (;
I used to think that I would never, ever pay for sex. I only wanted sex with a woman who truly loves me (and that is actually still true). But I have since come to realize that there are many ways of paying for sex, and not all of them mean that the participants don't love each other.
I've been thinking about this, and I've concluded that I would definitely pay an ESI that I know for sex once or twice, just to get her attention. After that, we can negotiate.
I think LIE's are probably best among all types with the concept of paying people for services rendered. If we don't have the money ourselves, we will find someone who can pay in our stead for the services.
It's all those Contracts, Money, and low Fi that we are made of.
Last edited by Adam Strange; 02-03-2020 at 06:11 PM.
Loling at the loving husband & pimp concept.
I think if we were to really scrutinize our motivations, stripping it of all social constructions modern western societies invented to attribute to the meaning of relationships, sex, in it's widest meaning of the term, is the first and foremost reason. I do not believe in this "women are from Venus and men are from Mars" kind of BS, which some people provide as the reason for man-women relationships, in which each sex has to learn to deal with the oddities of the other sex, exactly because Socionics as well as Jung's theories on animus/anima teach us that man and women are not all that different and that a lot of differences people believe in are just social, cultural constructs, not biological facts. Take a any couple with a female logical type and a male ethical type, for example: who's often wearing the pants?
As for buying sex: sex is not just lust, it is also intimacy. (and, I dare say, as one gets older, intimacy in sex becomes a lot more important than lust). As far as I can tell, you can't really buy intimacy, intimacy being defined as the capacity to emotional connection, which reaches no greater peak than while making love. Even if someone wanted to sell it, it can't practically happen: intimacy needs time for growth, trust, a certain degree of commitment etc. (and in my case an absolute degree of commitment, because no matter what, I make it a point to be always emotionally available to my GF if she needs me to be available, and I also expect the same from her, so there can be no screwing around, literally and figuratively speaking).
Back to the topic of this thread: when are you ready for your dual. Well, Dream Theater provided the answer in their song "Metropolis Part I - The Miracle and The Sleeper":
The smile of dawn arrived early May
She carried a gift from her home
The night shed a tear to tell her of fear
And of sorrow and pain
She'll never outgrow
Death is the first dance, eternal
There's no more freedom
The both of you will be
confined to this mind
I was told there's a miracle for each day that I try
I was told there's a new love
that's born for each one that has died
I was told there'd be no one to
call on when I feel alone and afraid
I was told if you dream of the next world
You'll find yourself swimming in a lake of fire
As a child, I thought I could
live without pain without sorrow
As a man I've found it's all caught up with me
I'm asleep yet I'm so afraid
Somewhere like a scene from a memory
There's a picture worth a thousand words
Eluding stares from faces before me
It hides away and will never be heard of again
Deceit is the second without end
The city's cold blood teaches us to survive
Just keep my heart in your eyes and we'll stay alive
The third arrives
Before the leaves have fallen
Before we lock the doors
There must be the third and last dance
This one will last forever
Metropolis watches and thoughtfully smiles
She's taken you to your home
It can only take place
When the struggle between
our children has ended
Now the Miracle and the
Sleeper know that the third is love
Love is the dance of eternity
I have tought that relationships are for conforming losers and real life is in dusty lab to be honest. Not much has changed, yet. As for libido I must ask: What is that? I never really wanted it because the act itself looks too much to be bothered in the end.
Measuring you right now
Winning is for losers
You are ready for an LIE when you are ready to get AIDS.
Yes, and this is the reason I insisted that my last GF and I get tested for STD's before we did anything. There are things out there that are not curable, and I want to stay away from them.
Before I was married, I didn't really take any precautions at all, and was just very, very lucky to not get anything. Most of my partners then were educated and young and hadn't had many partners themselves. But you never know, and it pays to be careful. One of my best friends got an incurable STD from banging the city mayor's wife. She was quite a bit older than he was, though, and might have gotten around more.
I'm not sure: at the time I was working as a turn down attendant in a hotel. One day shortly before that I wore a pair of uniform pants that had been worn by another colleague, because they ran out of clean pants. That might have been the cause. Another one is that during work I carried large piles of used towels out the rooms I was getting ready for the night, perhaps they came that way.
The last time I had sex was two months before, according to my doctor I should have had problems much sooner if it was transmitted during that last sex session.
For me duality came with a high level of instant intimacy and I wasn't ready for it at the time. It was seamless communication that felt like telepathy. I panicked and got irrationally scared because of attachment and childhood issues so I pushed him away. He was persistent and this required me hurting him and probably confusing him and I still feel guilt and regret about the whole thing. I was young and a bit of a mess back then. I'm ready for my dual now but not sure where in the world he is. I imagine him maybe living his life somewhere in my city doing exciting things but with a tinge of emptiness without me.
IME you're ready for your dual whenever you decide to be. Most likely the only thing standing in your way is you and your own mental blocks.