Member Questionnaire 1 (aLIEve)
What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty and Love are according to the parameters set by an individual. There is no right answer to this question.
What are your most important values?
I value truth, utility and family. It's a good tl;dr
Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I do hold some spiritual/religious beliefs. I grew up with said beliefs. I apply the sponge method and take what's good and do away with what's bad with a more reasonable contemporary lens.
Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
The sustaining of wars and the further developing of military powers are very profitable for my country. Power to me is the ability to make and execute decisions.
What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
I discuss current socio-economic issues with my friends. We discuss problems that affect our lives. That's for fun. I have the ability to talk about more or less anything? I tried to keep my interests varied to have this ability.
Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
Interested in health as I work in the food sector. Focused on my body? no.
What do you think of daily chores?
Terrible.
Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
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What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
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Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
In my own home.
What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
People have shared that I judge people to quickly and I'm inclined to agree. But, I've been working on that. Now, I'm working on developing my Si. No more living in filth!
What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
People seem to appreciate my candor and honesty. I don't talk behind people's backs, but I do say it to their faces. Despite my challenges feeling things, I do my best to make the best ethical decision.
In what areas of your life would you like help?
I need feedback frequently since I don't naturally have that sense with people's feelings. I frequently need to check and gauge my interpersonal distances. It's not as natural to adjust for me.
Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
Yes. When I know what to do/the way, but I'm not given the opportunity. It goes 1 of 2 ways, I give in and try to sabotage the project, or I lobby decision makers to try it my way.
What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
Likes: Honesty, frank expression

Dislikes: Arrogance, bullshit

I get along with EII, IEE, ESI
How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
It's great! Loyalty, Support, Participation l o l
If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
N/A l o l kids? not today satan.
A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
If we're surrounded by people we know and love, challenge that claim! If we're surrounded by randoms, get through the moment. Then pull her to the side and ask her what's up.
Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
Pretty defensive in general towards society. There's no reason for society to be kind to me and it never has. That being said I just don't expect society to be kind. I still try to be kind to society because I don't believe there's any karmic justice system out there. I just independently consider to make my decisions that way.
How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
I'm very picky with my close friends. If I see someone flippity floppity with their friendships/relationships, then I won't be inclined to close our interpersonal space. I behave how I normally do/comfortably, with additional sensitivity. They taught me to exercise empathy and understanding.
How do you behave around strangers?
The same.