Those are some very specific tendencies! Overall I can relate, though not all of it all the time. See this thread for some related discussion: https://www.the16types.info/vbulleti...talking-action
I have been typed INFJ in MBTI. I find that system a little less applicable to my experiences than Socionics. I can have deep feelings, yes, although I think my Enneagram type influences how I deal with them (I'm a type 9). Thus, while I do have these feelings, they can get washed out on the surface. There are plenty of things that don't bother me at all. Off the top of my head, the things that do upset me tend to relate to either treatment of people / living things (e.g. injustice) and when my direction gets disrupted or stymied (e.g. I'm trying to get something done and someone keeps interfering).
No.
Yes, but not often. I tend to have to fish for "what do you think of me?" than be told it straight up. Then again, I think I've learned to just avoid people who try to pigeonhole me.
Ok, now you're asking for a book. I don't have time for that ATM. But here are a few things:
- A main, automatic priority of my in daily interactions is creating / maintaining a positive personal connection, no matter how small, with whoever I'm dealing with.
- In any given situation, I can easily put things into "good" and "bad" categories. Although, it's a flexible system, open to further input.
- I really don't do well with loud, pushy, aggressive people, especially longer term.
- When I do encounter those people, my automatic response is to try to get them to cooperate with me because they like me (which of course is not always a good route).
- My spatial awareness in general is sub-par. It can spike when I concentrate / practice.
- It's usually fairly easy for me to get people to open up to me about personal things / what they're feeling.
- I don't stand up for myself as much as most people seem to think I should. When I do, sometimes I can go a little too far / hard.
EII-Ne. They also can be a little more extroverted, too, like in the sense of putting their ideas out there. This is because of the "stronger" perceiving function, Ne.



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