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    Default Dual pairings that are least likely to date

    Probably ESI male - LIE female since there’s typically a sizeable gap in income and status in the woman’s favor. Most upwardly mobile women aren’t going to be interesting in dating a subordinate or lower status guy unless he’s exceptionally handsome.
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    Rational male SF female NT dual pairing seem least likely to date. Female EIE and male LSI dual pairing is more stereotypical than reverse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Averroes View Post
    Probably ESI male - LIE female since there’s typically a sizeable gap in income and status in the woman’s favor. Most upwardly mobile women aren’t going to be interesting in dating a subordinate or lower status guy unless he’s exceptionally handsome.
    I know a female LIE, age 36, who has kicked out her SEE BF of many years, so I told her she should try an ESI. She asked me to show her what they look like, so I showed her Bob Dylan, Bruce Springsteen, Chris Isaak and Paul Newman. She studies their pictures for a while to see what they have in common, and as she's doing this, an ESI happens to walk by. The guy is dressed like he lives under a bridge. She looks at me, looks at him, and says "Oh, no. Not him. Tell me it's not him."

    "Well, you probably want a guy who actually has a job and knows how to dress himself in clean clothes."

    I think she actually wants more than that, but you have to start somewhere.

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    Be ambitious and do something, be handsome with a Chad Michael Murray-esque aesthetic, and have some family money. Those seem to be the requirements of my female LIE friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Averroes View Post
    Probably ESI male - LIE female since there’s typically a sizeable gap in income and status in the woman’s favor. Most upwardly mobile women aren’t going to be interesting in dating a subordinate or lower status guy unless he’s exceptionally handsome.
    In general, ExTx woman + IxFx man is the least likely pairing, especially ESTx because of the 4D Se in addition to 4D Te.

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    Eh ESI's are known to bust their ass off when it comes to work but then again I have met one male who looks like brainless LII, does drugs and suffers from anxieties and therefore he needs benzos and sleeping pills. So mileage may vary in any type.
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    I can confirm, having met both a slacker and a workaholic ESI.

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    There's so much that stands in the way of dual pairing: lack of attractiveness, social status, success, intelligence, education, beliefs, etc. One also cannot assume that success is predicated on type. If all things were equal, the free-ranging EFps tend to ignore holed-up ITps, who would likely notice the EFps but not bother to go check them out, or if they did, would fumble at the mouth.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Averroes View Post
    Probably ESI male - LIE female since there’s typically a sizeable gap in income and status in the woman’s favor. Most upwardly mobile women aren’t going to be interesting in dating a subordinate or lower status guy unless he’s exceptionally handsome.
    According to Gulenko, involutionary dualities tend not to last, because the partners are more judgmental of each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by myresearch View Post
    Rational male SF female NT dual pairing seem least likely to date. Female EIE and male LSI dual pairing is more stereotypical than reverse.
    what about an LII male and an ESE female dual relationship with around equal age? I can't pursue the relationship at the moment, for religious reasons (we're Muslim) and because her father wants her to focus on her career (and she does, too, i guess) and we never saw each much and especially not now due to the covid 19 outbreak. I've talked to her a little, and we got along i suppose. we just didn't interact that much. but as kids i enjoyed her company. i even remember playing soccer and then seeing her through the tainted window of the sunday school, and staring..........and staring........good times.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Misfit View Post
    what about an LII male and an ESE female dual relationship with around equal age? I can't pursue the relationship at the moment, for religious reasons (we're Muslim) and because her father wants her to focus on her career (and she does, too, i guess) and we never saw each much and especially not now due to the covid 19 outbreak. I've talked to her a little, and we got along i suppose. we just didn't interact that much. but as kids i enjoyed her company. i even remember playing soccer and then seeing her through the tainted window of the sunday school, and staring..........and staring........good times.
    Sounds like a match made in Heaven. Keep it close to your heart. Often the extrovert needs to make initial approaches (and it's easy for them), but she should feel your interest and respect. And she will, if you have it and maintain it. Pray for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post

    "Well, you probably want a guy who actually has a job and knows how to dress himself in clean clothes."

    I think she actually wants more than that, but you have to start somewhere.
    Well, that certainly leaves me out.
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