Re: stable, maybe. For me personally... and who knows, maybe I'm just a screwed up ESE (lmao)... I do not think I look for men more "masculine" than myself. In fact, I find it hard to understand precisely what that means: no, I do not do the makeup and the looking cute thing, but I'm not particularly aggressive or in your face, either, and I am not terrible at seeming "socially appropriate" at a distance. But yes, I agree with the fact I have had more experience in having to do this than men may have had in similar positions as myself.
I do not seek out guys as a general rule, but if I did, he likely would be more stereotypically masculine than me, yes... of course, as above, I do not consider myself all that masculine, just maybe "not feminine," if you will, so take it with a grain of salt.
@
Adam Strange: Her being attractive is the first thing you look at, though you know you want more than a pretty face? What kind of research do you do when deciding to pursue it further or not?