I find the ESE hate amusing. lol Sometimes they have a poor sense of timing and seem oblivious to me brushing them off politely so I have to be direct about it. Nothing too bad on my end. I once noticed a lot of forum members typing a parent ESE so I wonder if that influences perception. Having kids turn people ESE? My LSI mom didn't have any of the ESE vibes and my ESE sister is younger so I had seniority over her anyway.
They don't really bother me much, probably because my sister is one. I am sure I frustrate them to a certain degree.