I only know three ESI females well. One is a lesbian artist ESI-Se, a second is an ESI-Se who flirts but won’t go out with me again (she said her previous BFs made her feel ashamed of herself), and the third is a married RN ESI-Fi who has had two bad marriages and doesn’t trust her ability to choose men well. And I do cycle through them on a weekly basis.
They are all different but similar at the core. Like a single person who wears different outfits. I prefer the ESI-Ses for work and the ESI-Fis for play and relaxation. Exactly as the theory says.
And @
timber, I AM keeping my options open. It’s not as if I’m a twenty-two year old girl who falls in love with the first guy who consistently gives her orgasms. I’m being careful because I want the full deal. Also, the ESIs are not exactly rushing into anything. They make decisions based on impulsive actions which are later examined in hindsight, so they go slow in relationships when they’ve been burned a lot. And every one of these women has been burned a lot.
Plus, there are social problems. I live near a 33 yo LIE financial advisor friend and his EII wife. Yesterday they were out walking their poodle hybrid past my house when I pulled into the driveway with the 27 yo ESI-Se artist. She has this very definite “Diana the Huntress” thing going. She looks like an elemental goddess who set extreme records in college Lacrosse, because she did.
I called to my friend to say hello to him and his wife, and he smiled until he saw her get out of the car. The ESI-Se said hello and both the LIE and his wife turned chilly. Fucking asshole was judging us.
I later told the ESI-Se that his wife was her Kindred. She said “She seemed very relatable.”