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Shytan, I don't know anything about type 4 envy-rejection loops. Rather, I interpret your painful reaction to rejection as being a necessary part of an EII whose duals are the fairly emotionally insensitive LSE's. If a guy basically works from 8 to 5 and goes fishing after work and goes hunting on the weekends and expects you to keep house and cook and barely remembers the names of his kids, you have to be naturally incredibly faithful and devoted to stay married to him.
Don't waste that talent (or characteristic) on a guy who doesn't need that more than anything. Withdrawing your Fi is like cutting off the LSE's nuts. It is your very real power over him, and he will do anything to prevent that.