@Aylen what do you think of all this
@Aylen what do you think of all this
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
cue music porn
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
If this thread becomes anything I hope it becomes written proof that I’m not hopelessly shallow even if everything I surround myself with is shallow.
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
I just want to offset this by saying, with my IEI ex I was like a clear aggressor. I made the move first and I was continuously pushing myself onto them, on the hunt (though IEI did say I was cute first which prompted it). It was a constant emotional rollercoaster full of endless conversation, connection, disconnection, doubt, hope; every emotion under the sun. But I’ve noticed a tendency for Fe egos to push for constant attention which, in my mind, could resemble aggressor tactics (Te egos do a similar thing but differently). I guess what I’m saying is that every extraverted function has the capacity to be an “aggressor” - except Ne, Ne is the oddball like always (Ni is at first made out to be the oddball, but it doesn’t exist within our perception enough to judge directly. Whereas with Ne you can’t miss that it’s erratic yet unconfrontational. You are able to sense its presence but you sense it more as an annoying fly that you want to swat away, unless you wanna watch it do its dirty hand rubbing. With Se/Fe/Te you’re confronted by a fierce tiger with many different faces (Se = it’s speeding towards you to attack, Fe = listen to me roar, Te = this is my tactic to hunt and get as many resources back from it).
Guys, I promise I’m not on ANY drugs right now. This is legit my brain stewing. I’ve only been smoking weed lately and I feel a lot more “clean” lol.
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
I spend a lot of time observing people and running simulations in my head about what they would have to be thinking to act the way they do.
The quoted above sounds like what I imagine to be the inner dialogue of a 6w7 ESI-Se artist that I know. I find her very attractive and completely unstable. She wants so much to be seen, but is scared to death to stand still. One minute she’s passionate, then she can’t be found for days.
Head types are like, unable to be followed sadly (for you ). Our logic often doesn’t make sense to anyone but ourselves, but it runs on a spectrum. Ex. a 5’s organized logic and explanations probably make more sense than a 7’s quick on-your-feet thinking and restless abandon (though 5 could still be too abstract to grasp at times). 6 is like, in the center of the madness and they don’t really have a way of dealing with it like 5s and 7s; they rely on something they can trust in the outside world to guide them.
With a 7 wing there’s often a taste of “Fuck this, I’m out bitches!!” wherein they momentarily leave all the 6 principles behind to chase whimsical things. Hence, not standing still and vanishing for days. This is my default setting, and occasionally I have things that ground me to reality and support me like a 6 (this is where my 6 wing comes into play, and it’s mostly just me being loyal to people who I can drag into any situation).
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
Head types in general feel like they’re not experiencing reality directly, instead they’re watching it through a lens of what should be. Even the 7s who are sex, drugs and rock & roll are experiencing life secondhand to the visions of what could be that excite them (and perhaps they best embody the “lens of what should be”). Gut types are firmly in the here and now, more than any other triad - even the 9 who disconnects from their anger and allows themselves to get swallowed by the energy of the world rather than impacting it or harnessing it still has a focus on their body and how it takes up space. Image types are more detached from reality because of having to keep an image up but they’re still more present than head types because they have to be in the moment to keep their image in check (especially 3s who are constantly engaging the environment for success).
6s focus on dichotomies, 7s run free in the space between them, and 5s create the frameworks that we know to begin with.
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
I just impulsively pierced my nose and my parents are gonna flip lmao
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
I’m trying to post a pic but none of these websites are working give me a good image uploader!!!!!!!
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
Anybody else emotionless and hollow on the inside or that just me?
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
Thank god im hot and dumb
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
the part where they kiss... the music... i wanna cry every time
highly recommend this show!
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
@Ragdoll Cat do you think I could be your dual or your conflictor, or should I stay in the SEE lane?
@Aylen still awaiting your word
@squark LSI opinions are welcome too!
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
I think you are SEE. By pictures an all. Both ENFx are different. I think you are more like Se Fi. I'm too lazy to go into details now.
I think my problem with EIE is the emotions being first and foremost. I love sharing a fun time with people and expressing joy and humor, and I also love blowing off steam with intense arguments and conflict... but normally I run far away from feelings. I have deep feelings bottled up but I have no intention of unscrewing it.
My problem with SEE is that I feel like, as a person I’m not cool enough or strong enough to be one. This might come from a younger me being bullied, being weird, and not having the guts to stand up for anything. Eventually life forced me to be who I am now. But I don’t know if that’s always been me. I know I’ve always been hyper and impulsive. When I was a kid I had a way of winning people over and I have that power now too. But there was a dark period between both times where I was alone.
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
Yeah, true.
I think people have this idea that I’m super slutty and I’ve dated a shit ton of people but... Sex is really hard for me. I’m not confident in my body, I get ashamed. It takes awhile for me to trust someone enough to fuck. It’s like, every other part of dating comes naturally (flirting, cuddling, making out, sharing things, etc.) but in the sex part I’m broken. And I don’t know whether this is all from being abused or if type has any play.
Yes, they are. Thanks for that.
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
if it comforts you, the SEE guy I dated for a while this year, a boisterous and loud guy who consumed too much drugs and was a bit crazy, to the point that one night broke the window of the place I was in just to harass me, and tattoed my name on his arm after 2 weeks of dating... well.. he was a shy and bullied kid too. when he showed me his pictures of him in his early 20's (id card), i couldnt believe it. apparently he lost his virginity around 22/23 and from that point his life changed... I've questioned too if what i saw then was a SEE or something else gone weird.. but the SEE was undeniable...
i saw you've been saying something about virginity and self realization too... i think it's true... and maybe yes, real maturity-types come with age (+ necessary experiences)
LOL, i feel like that’s something i’d do if i totally lost my shit. lol. name tattoos are the worst, worse than tramp stamps (when they’re both, that takes the cake ).
that totally got me off topic just had to laugh lol, but thanks for sharing. i think you’re pretty cool
so are most of the people in this thread, only cool kids allowed
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
lmao agreed 100%, but it was the point I realized for good how wrong the whole thing was, so name tattoo are not so so bad in the end... :/ lol
>values emotional connection and doesn't feel too physically confident
>must be intuitive
seems legit
smh, pls kids dont fight