@End I'm not sure as I haven't watched much or any anime recently. The only one I can think of is Mikasa. Like my post if I'm right?
If society really did influence me that much, then I'd be like Meghan Trainor (horrible) or Ariana Grande or another MK Ultra robot like that.
So I would say it's both society and individuals, but within the limits of what resonates with you.
Thank you for the question. Made me think.