So my view on this is

Fi -having the ability to adapt to others 1-1 according to the other person specific needs/wants

Fe -using the averaged out way of interacting with people to deal with people 1-1, canít adapt to personal preferences unless with Ti (it has to make sense why)

I donít have a problem with bonding with people I like

Nor do I have a problem with knowing the social rules

But knowing social rules /= to being able to use them, or fitting it

and being able to bond with 2-3 people /= to being able to form relations with everyone