Last edited by Ibreen; 02-09-2020 at 07:46 PM.
Yes, I agree that most people who type SLE here are super-genuine and really friendly.
If that seems surprising, it's just because every "type" is more likely to be assessed (and get a reputation) by people who are not in their quadra and hence don't see the person as having similar values, but rather they see the person as a character.
Most people are really decent and good.
No offense, but I don't think it's possible for a SLE to be enneagram 4w5 and be remotely healthy; a "shadowing" IEI would be the likelier possibility. For SLEs, enneagram 7, 8, 3 and 6 provide the healthiest correlations.
SLE's actually don't exist
You may not exist, but you have exquisite avatar taste.
"Lecteur, as-tu quelquefois respiré
Avec ivresse et lente gourmandise
Ce grain d'encens qui remplit une église,
Ou d'un sachet le musc invétéré?
Charme profond, magique, dont nous grise
Dans le présent le passé restauré!
Ainsi l'amant sur un corps adoré
Du souvenir cueille la fleur exquise"
You haven't seen or met all of us yet. I think a 4w5 SLE is sort of someone fetishizing their super-id functions. Welcome, though, anyway! (:
Enneagram 4 is all about the ego fixation of "I am broken" and "I can't be like the others"
Somewhere in early development you were figuratively tossed out of the sand box and when you returned you could no longer relate to the others in some unfathomable way.
Everything then stems from these core beliefs, including the famous "I'm unique" as all e4s have.