Are they really charming? And how do they charm people? Darn I've grown up for already 1/5 of my lifespan and have yet to charm the pants of people. Must have been fun ain't it? I've been single all my short short life (which isn't too common where I come from) and there's no one from the opposite sex close to me. Oh screw that, the only person who's actually remotely close to me is some supervisor I know who's getting on my nerves now. He's got a point though that being nice to everybody doesn't get you anywhere but it doesn't get you killed though. How do you graduate from being nice to being charming? That's what I want to know from you experienced ENFp's out there.