When I was younger I talked to everyone and was loved by all adults (especially teachers) and had many good friends. But as I got 18+ I started to change myself profoundly, in the way I looked, my interests switched to other areas, and I started to be pickier about my contacts , and nowadays my real life contacts are becoming only my home family and some other 4 people. My mom warns me of becoming antissocial, and some people ask me If I have forgotten them. And I am happy to be like this, and don't want to come back to my "past life", because I had many friends but felt guilty of being a fictional character. I was an angel to most people.
now I don't have male friends (This is funny to me lol) and
one of my best friends is my mother (1 of the 3 people there's life when I talk to), btw.