Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12
Results 41 to 46 of 46

Thread: ESE and EII illusionary/Mirage relations (ESFj and INFj)

  1. #41
    silke's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2011
    Posts
    4,954
    Mentioned
    429 Post(s)
    Tagged
    3 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    He's not EII, not at all
    Given how much he likes to talk about relationships and their cooking, yes he is. You haven't watched much of their videos, have you?

  2. #42
    Marep's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2019
    TIM
    H-EII Sx/Sp E9w1
    Posts
    366
    Mentioned
    4 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by silke View Post
    Given how much he likes to talk about relationships and their cooking
    No type related

  3. #43
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    25,161
    Mentioned
    625 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    Typical conversation between my sister and I. I am in the blue
    E284C894-C575-4F4B-B08B-27E18060ECA7.png
    B59AFFA1-833D-4738-91B8-3F0035F076AF.png
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  4. #44
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    25,161
    Mentioned
    625 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    My sister has a way of infecting others around her with her emotions and being the center of attention because she is and can be so emotionally expressive. At the Thanksgiving party she went into a cry expression and called upon one person at a time to tell them how much she loved them all the while crying and sobbing. Of course I am the total opposite of this as I’m very calm but I am affectionate so every so often I would hug her and encourage her not to have too much negativity. She did take a center role as I ran around and fed the kids and looked after the cleaning.
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  5. #45
    a two horned unicorn renegade COVID 007's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2015
    Location
    sniffing your butt
    TIM
    ILE-α/H, LEVF
    Posts
    5,450
    Mentioned
    239 Post(s)
    Tagged
    2 Thread(s)

    Default

    So when ESE throws a fit someone needs to tell her that this makes no sense and offer an alternative way of dealing about it and give a reason in very concentrated manner and maybe ask clarifying questions. LII's handle this much better than LSI's.

    Fe base is highly hysterical but ESE's need to listen clarifying words more than a direct blow of LSI.
    Measuring you right now

    Winning is for losers

     

    Sincerely yours,
    idiosyncratic type

  6. #46
    Rebelondeck's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2016
    Posts
    1,452
    Mentioned
    125 Post(s)
    Tagged
    1 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Beautiful sky View Post
    ......we always have fights during the start of a project ......
    ......She takes no responsibility.....she wants to make FUN Jell-O shots at an INFANT’s party........
    ......she’s would drink have a merry time joke and sit on people’s laps and kiss them and joke. No serious work ethic......
    .....She would get on the phone with her boyfriend and flirt all day.........
    ....enthusiastic over a new fun idea, avoids unpleasantness of work and planning, hides during a conflict and can’t brush it away, responsive to help when she’s the one who’s supported to be helping and just wants to flirt and Be merry......
    .......and not help her son complete the project....
    .....she went from happy to hysteria......
    My sister has a way of infecting others.......
    If these all apply to your sister, she's certainly not like any ESE that I've ever met. Is a mental disorder in the realm of possibilities?

    a.k.a. I/O

Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •