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    Quote Originally Posted by sbbds View Post
    Show me an IEI who does MMA? I’m sure such an IEI guy would exist but... uhh .. it’d be very unusual.
    Just by writing those words you just made bunch of IEI's dream about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Heretic 007 View Post
    Just by writing those words you just made bunch of IEI's dream about it.
    Yeah before they resume their dreams about furry unicorn porn after just 10 seconds. Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    Yesterday I went back to have lunch at the restaurant owned by the IEI whom I chased unsuccessfully for two years. She saw me sitting at a table and came over and sat down across from me, leaning back in her chair to show off her long, bare legs. (The tables have see-through tops.)

    She looked like hell, and I asked her if she'd gotten enough sleep? She said No, can you guess why?, and gave me a little smirk.
    "Sex", I said. "Congratulations."
    "Thank you."
    "So, tell me about this guy."
    "He's tall", she begins, which is a swipe at me because she's six feet and I'm not, the bitch, and she thinks that's important and she knows it pisses me off. I'm sure she's putting me down because it is something she has over me and I can't change that fact, which is exactly what she'd do if I were SLE. Man, SLE's have it tough, I'd say.
    "...and he has the same motorcycle that I have, the exact same model."
    "A BMW tourer?"
    "Yes. And he has an Airstream."
    "Those are nice. So he travels, just like you do."
    She smiled.
    "And what else about him?"
    "Oh, he's into yoga and.."
    "Yoga?", I said. "Really?", disparagingly. "I think you've found yourself an Identical. Someone just like you." And then I shifted into SLE mode. I moved from my seat to the one next to her to get closer to her and touch her. Goddammit, she's beautiful and I want to slap her and fuck her and she irritates the hell out of me. How can a woman force me into animal mode so quickly?
    "Well, this guy is better than your last guy. What was he, an architect?". Her Architect was a rich LSE, and at this point, I sit up straight and adjust my jacket and act constipated and she laughs.
    "You know, having sex with an Identical is just like having sex with yourself", and now she's looking wary.
    "Look", I said, grabbing her hand and forcing my phone into it. "Here's a picture of a woman I know who's the same type as me. I'd like to have sex with her, sure, but I know where that would lead. But maybe this guy is a good match for you. Identicals can be very validating." I'm looking at her shorts and imagining her taking them off.
    "She looks like a business person", the IEI says in her French accent, staring at the phone.
    "You know, he might be OK. You guys tend to travel easily because you don't feel complete and are always looking for something you can't find. In fact, half the women of your type end up with guys who are the same type. So it might work out."
    She looked at me for a long time. "I'll let you know", she said, and handed back the phone. "Now I have to go."
    Lol. Her immediate experience of me had overwhelmed her positive memories of me.

    She got up from the table and I finished my lunch, but I saw her watching me from the shadows and smiling as I left.

    Man, if I had just a bit more Se, this would have turned out differently. Probably not better, but different.
    Adam you are next level. this is some sex and the city shit right here. If you were Se you would have grabbed her wrist as she got up and mock-pout Fe style and asked where she was going.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sbbds View Post
    Yeah before they resume their dreams about furry unicorn porn after just 10 seconds. Lol
    And now bunch of LIE's are planning movie studios for unicorn porn. btw 2 horned unicorn starts to reveal double meanings
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    Quote Originally Posted by Heretic 007 View Post
    And now bunch of LIE's are planning movie studios for unicorn porn. btw 2 horned unicorn starts to reveal double meanings
    If you mean what I think you mean, I think it would be unpleasant for every participant involved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ashlesha View Post
    If you mean what I think you mean, I think it would be unpleasant for every participant involved.
    yeah not that way but I don't go graphic here so...
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    I had a decent relationship with a 5w4...though in retrospect I almost think he was more a 9, Iíve tended to date some 9ís. I used to think I was 459 (I noticed your type) and I fit plenty within the description, but no way am I triple withdrawn. Withdrawn, yes, but triple???? Nah.

    I did date a supposed 4 too (via test), but I think he could actually be cp6, which now that I recently figured out heís probably ESI, makes sense. He was a dick.

    Tbh the only true 4 I can think of dating (couple actually) we both batshit insane :/ , so needless to say, didnít last long. They werenít as big of overt dicks as dude mentioned above, but they had really shitty behaviors and did messed up things.
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    Another 4 and I once had serious plans to marry; it was kinda dumb. Dodged a bullet, as did she probably, not so much because of our personality types though. In fact we had great compatibility for a while. Things I said, were things she had been thinking/feeling a million times, and vice versa. It was kinda weird. In retrospect it actually kind of creeps me out how two people can be so similar yet come from such widely different backgrounds. She was literally the female version of me. Perhaps a little bit more flashy though, less focused on Ti-related hobbies/prospects too. Maybe a difference in wings, head fix or subtype could explain that.
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    Btw, I know a dude who is active in yoga and in kick-boxing and attacked a dude for staring me down on a bus so... tough guys can do yoga (I think he’s ESI, though IEI did cross my mind... potentially another gamma type actually)
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    Quote Originally Posted by bouncingoffclouds View Post
    Btw, I know a dude who is active in yoga and in kick-boxing and attacked a dude for staring me down on a bus so... tough guys can do yoga (I think he’s ESI, though IEI did cross my mind... potentially another gamma type actually)
    Do you consider attacking someone for a look tough? He's probably mentally unstable.
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    He came across the guy later and did it, and knowing him I absolutely believe it, dude is a lot of things, liar wasn’t one of them. Yeah he’s BPD likely lol. Still though. He does yoga and he’s also tough and engages in fighting type things. He’s very engaged in both. I think people here are too focused on people fitting fully into stereotypes. People can evolve past aspects of their type. Also some sexist undertones from some honestly.

    Also dude who was staring was literally staring hard for at least 15 minutes (potentially longer, until it came to his stop) and kept doing it even as he was walking off the bus. Pretty sure he was having some delusions :/. It was extremely uncomfortable and intimidating.

    I guess said dude was in a mode later on when they were on the same bus again and yeah he decided to punch him... guy was confused and had no idea who he was.

    You are right though. Said dude is an asshole so

    Quote Originally Posted by Remiel View Post
    Do you consider attacking someone for a look tough? He's probably mentally unstable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bouncingoffclouds View Post
    He came across the guy later and did it, and knowing him I absolutely believe it, dude is a lot of things, liar wasn’t one of them. Yeah he’s BPD likely lol. Still though. He does yoga and he’s also tough and engages in fighting type things. He’s very engaged in both. I think people here are too focused on people fitting fully into stereotypes. People can evolve past aspects of their type. Also some sexist undertones from some honestly.

    Also dude who was staring was literally staring hard for at least 15 minutes (potentially longer, until it came to his stop) and kept doing it even as he was walking off the bus. Pretty sure he was having some delusions :/. It was extremely uncomfortable and intimidating.

    I guess said dude was in a mode later on when they were on the same bus again and yeah he decided to punch him... guy was confused and had no idea who he was.

    You are right though. Said dude is an asshole so
    Don't misunderstand me, and yes. Sometimes swift justice is well served. Bus-staring is not ok. Especially if one looks at rape statistics. Lots of encounters started at public transportation and ended with rape and or murder.

    People here are often small minded and grasping for straws to compartmentalize human experience. I find it entertaining though. Which is one of the reasons I still frequent these quarters. Big fishies and small bowls and all of that.
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    468 eh, intriguing type , are you sure you’re not the dangerous one

    lol yeah he did say “he was raping you with your eyes”

    you’re right though. He’s unstable and a dick
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    Quote Originally Posted by bouncingoffclouds View Post
    468 eh, intriguing type , are you sure you’re not the dangerous one
    Like I said to Falkor, I'm fluffy.

    Quote Originally Posted by bouncingoffclouds View Post
    you’re right though. He’s unstable and a dick
    Avoid them, even if they have the good D.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sbbds View Post
    Show me an IEI who does MMA? Iím sure such an IEI guy would exist but... uhh .. itíd be very unusual.
    You were probably just joking but if not, that's basic entry level thinking about type. I.e. "X type would never do Y activity."

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    From what I know of IEIs they like SLE attributes but they make exceptions for people from their same circle. I’d imagine only really unhealthy IEIs would like people of their same type, as opposed to other types liking their type. This is because knowing themselves and liking themselves is a first step for development in IEIs compared to other types.

    I think it can be summed up as “we have everything in common, why doesn’t she like me?” which isn’t as problematic in, say, an ST type, because that isn’t their main area of development.

    For an SLE it would start with starting to think of people as people “why did she walk out on me? I thought we were doing fine.” When they haven’t been meeting their partners needs and their partner got fed up with them.

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