Lol I think some men are like this tbh, even an ESI man i have distantly known to where I actually did the pursuing (imagine that lol) and it was a terrible idea that also ended poorly, it's like a bad omen if i end up pursuing a man at least that's how i've come to view it haha. But I can see it being the case with IEI tho. I wanted to comment as it reminded me of something and i wondered if it's a Se-Ni ethical introvert's game (?)