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    Default ESI-SLE Supervision

    How do ESIs perceive SLEs and vice versa?

    Do you know any successful relations between these types? What do they look like?

    What steps would be needed to avoid or mend conflicts and misunderstandings?

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    @Bento, I know a female ESI-Se who dated a female SLE-Se for a while. They were both about 21 and exploring relationships. When they were together, being around them was like being in a hothouse for orchids, the Se sexual chemistry just dripped off them.
    However, I caught the ESI giving the SLE a disdaining glance as if she were saying, "How can you be so stupid?" I expect their relationship will devolve into distant acquaintances, because the SLE intended to move away.

    Supervision can work in a limited kind of way in some cases, particularly if the two people have a lot in common and a lot of shared interests. But ultimately, it has some very serious drawbacks.

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    ESI are not subtle about their Fi. They will question the living heck out of your morals, they will emotionally manipulate you to come see them "hum? why haven't you come see me? are you mad at me or something?" yeah maybe their Fi supervises everyone lol
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