This sounds like me (ESFP ) and my ESTJ husband. It makes me crazy how he's constantly asking me what I think when 99% of the time I genuinely DO NOT CARE! I've often wondered if I did it to him, though, since I used to be bossier. It's like I've completely taken away his ability to make any decision on his own. One time her called me from the store to ask me whether or not he should spend $3 on something for our daughter. Three. dollars. Seriously?