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    So my LSE husband and I are at a boat store purchasing a boat and my husband approach’s an SLE parts sales guy and asks for some information on a part. I type him and I tell my husband “honey he’s SLE, my conflict relationship. Can you tell why?” He says this to me

    He’s the super confident cocky type. He’s the type that you’re either on board with him or not. I’m (LSE) a lot more patient with clients. He’s too pushy. I tell my husband “I always feel on guard around sle like they are in a bad, pissed off mood.” My husband says “they use their mood to get what they want and you don’t put out any emotions so they cannot read you.” I say to my husband “He comes off like it would pain him to smile.”
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Yeah the Fi polr definitely master of emotions

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    Plot twist you were turned on by him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Finaplex View Post
    Plot twist you were turned on by him.
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    So the SLE, mirage of the SEI (one of the friendliest, most helpful, benevolent types), typically comes off like they are in a "bad, pissed off mood?" lol Perhaps in "EII Land," I suppose. Doesn't match my experience, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alonzo View Post
    So the SLE, mirage of the SEI (one of the friendliest, most helpful, benevolent types), typically comes off like they are in a "bad, pissed off mood?" lol Perhaps in "EII Land," I suppose. Doesn't match my experience, though.
    Alot fo them seem like they are in a hyped up mood, like Number 9 large in his typing video. Can't sit still.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alonzo View Post
    So the SLE, mirage of the SEI (one of the friendliest, most helpful, benevolent types), typically comes off like they are in a "bad, pissed off mood?" lol Perhaps in "EII Land," I suppose. Doesn't match my experience, though.
    yeah well in my land they look upset
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beautiful sky View Post
    So my LSE husband and I are at a boat store purchasing a boat and my husband approach’s an SLE parts sales guy and asks for some information on a part. I type him and I tell my husband “honey he’s SLE, my conflict relationship. Can you tell why?” He says this to me

    He’s the super confident cocky type. He’s the type that you’re either on board with him or not. I’m (LSE) a lot more patient with clients. He’s too pushy. I tell my husband “I always feel on guard around sle like they are in a bad, pissed off mood.” My husband says “they use their mood to get what they want and you don’t put out any emotions so they cannot read you.” I say to my husband “He comes off like it would pain him to smile.”
    Makes sense to me. Curious what you think of my SLI (probably), I posted about.
    Figured it out. LIE. I'm extraverted, which is incredibly counter intuitive for a person who doesn't tend to go out much. Don't know how often I'll be on, but don't expect me to respond often. Only option I'm willing to debate is Si vs Ni right now. Mission accomplished.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alomoes View Post
    Makes sense to me. Curious what you think of my SLI (probably), I posted about.
    Where’s the post?
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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    I've met SLE who weren't super confident, cocky or pushy but a large percentage of people who are successful in sales seem to be. Most of the SLE's that I've known smiled and joked a lot. I've met SLEs who were very manipulative but I equate this behaviour more with poor upbringing and influences. However, prejudgement and attitude of others can also contribute to bringing out the worst in people.........

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