Quote Originally Posted by Blackberry View Post
I've met some that seem to be an "hybrid" between own quadra values and opposite quadra values. Such ppl have hard time coping with life or having a normal adulthood since they seem unable to fulfill "social" expectations (opposite quadra-familiar values), plus they were taught to see part of their natural values as wrong. So they seem to gravitate in some kind of loophole or void where they seem to not fit in any of the quadras and be rejected by all of them.
Since kids seem to learn to act as pseudo quasi identical (the type they are more close to) to avoid "hurting" one or both of the parents or mixing up with their primary environment.

edit. Also is easy for them to develop some phobias or anxiety and disadaptation falling out in a loop of using Role Function to match with what's required from them.
When one becomes this hybrid kind of person, it brings inner conflict, so in a way, as they conflict with themselves, they may conflict with others too as a reflection of what is inside. Is it possible that the parent is conflicted and transfers that to the child without necessarily being a conflictor? And if so, there comes the question of where did it begin.
I have thought of having a conflictor parent, but sometimes I wonder if they aren't just conflicted.
Sometimes, I wonder how much I may be fooling myself over all this.
At the end of the day, who cares? I feel much better when I don't care, that's for sure.