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    Quote Originally Posted by wonderland View Post
    Internal conflict.
    The way one feels, sees, interpretes life is "wrong" by the people closest to them. Then it depends on whom is met. Rejecting the family vision is more likely to attract like minded people, but if one rejects the self, it is more likely they will hang around people who are alike their family and reject the like minded. This happens on a spectrum, plus the health, or lack thereof, plays its part too.
    Why some reject family values, and others personal values is a matter of [...] many things.
    I've met some that seem to be an "hybrid" between own quadra values and opposite quadra values. Such ppl have hard time coping with life or having a normal adulthood since they seem unable to fulfill "social" expectations (opposite quadra-familiar values), plus they were taught to see part of their natural values as wrong. So they seem to gravitate in some kind of loophole or void where they seem to not fit in any of the quadras and be rejected by all of them.
    Since kids seem to learn to act as pseudo quasi identical (the type they are most alike) to avoid "hurting" one or both of the parents and adapt to their primary environment.

    edit. Also is easy for them to develop some phobias or anxiety and disadaptation falling out in a loop for using Role Function to match with what's required from them.
    Last edited by Kiba; 05-08-2019 at 07:21 PM.

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