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    Do you feel like laughing or mockering someone who requests information concerning your strong unvalued functions?
    I don't know if it relates to this, but sometimes I can't help but laugh. I mean, I'm not looking down on them or anything, I just feel an uncontrolable urge to laugh, and I keep talking and laughing and some may interpret this as being mean and sarcastic, and I feel bad for it, because I'm being honest in what I'm saying.

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    You’re reading into it too literally lol. Wtf is this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sbbds View Post
    You’re reading into it too literally lol. Wtf is this.
    To be more precise, it is more like an internal laughter that can somewhat be perceived by the other person. It doesn't happen anymore because I'm being humble, but too much unvalued output makes me want to laugh

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    No I just try to understand their mind and how it works so that I can prepare to help them the best way that I can
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    Quote Originally Posted by Megatrop View Post
    To be more precise, it is more like an internal laughter that can somewhat be perceived by the other person. It doesn't happen anymore because I'm being humble, but too much unvalued output makes me want to laugh
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    lol, that would make me so weirded out if somene was explaining something Teish to me and couldnt keep from laughing about what he's saying...

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    No, but give an example of something that made you laugh pls.
    Tbh, one IEI that I know do this and its obnoxious. But Si stuff that's poorly done makes me laugh. But probably not if asked. Or mb. Like if someone ask me something absurd it would be funny. I'm thinking in small kids who are innocent and ask funny stuff. But not sure if thats similar at what you refer to.

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    this reminds me of some episodes from the office.. or one of those british nonsense things..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blackberry View Post
    No, but give an example of something that made you laugh pls.
    Tbh, one IEI that I know do this and its obnoxious. But Si stuff that's poorly done makes me laugh. But probably not if asked. Or mb. Like if someone ask me something absurd it would be funny. I'm thinking in small kids who are innocent and ask funny stuff. But not sure if thats similar at what you refer to.
    That's exactly like kids asking funny stuff, somewhat innocent or absurd stuff, that you think is not important but tries to give it a try to explain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    this reminds me of some episodes from the office.. or one of those british nonsense things..
    Someone once asked me if she could do something she's not good at, but at the same time, it wasn't important to me how much she was good at that and how she would perfom (but it is important to her for some reason), and I had to explain why she shouldn't do that in public. My eyes started looking sarcastic and I tried to hide my emotions, but she realized that and gave an unconscious aggressive look at me. And I stopped talking about that, and I felt bad afterwards. This happens a lot to that girl, and I have to be cautious, and take her seriously.

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    hmm... and you think that stuff was Te? what kind of things did she ask help in?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    hmm... and you think that stuff was Te? what kind of things did she ask help in?
    It wasn't Te. I believe it was Ne related since it was about her potential in performing as a maestro in a little choir. But it happened also in other situations that I can't remember right now.

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    lol.. well that's making me laugh as well.. some years ago my dad came up with a crazy idea of design, and asked us fam to judge it and collaborate... and I found it so so so absurd... I laughed so much at his idea (poor daddy), it was really so naive and lovely... I couldnt keep myself, it was so poorly realized, but it was one hella great idea... and he put so much effort in that, and I couldn't keep myself :/

    I know what you mean...

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