This is how LSE build morality when they are with EII:
In a discussion I will point to things like this
I want to do something nice for my mom, she works so hard.
I feel as though I have to help my mom out whenever I can because she's being so kind to us.
I feel so bad for my mom because of her arthritis she often can not do the things so being a good person to me means helping out.
After talking in this regard long enough my husband went to place the dishes in the sink and washed them. He came back to the bedroom and said "you know what I realized when I put the dishes in the sink? I realized that I have to do the dishes as to help her out because she's so kind to us and she helps us out so much. I have morals. I recognize my morality."
Welcome to following my ethics.