So this thread is because you want to control someone else's gender identity via forum posts? That's as absurd as trying to kill someone by shooting your computer screen, and about as polite, and, you'll find, about as beneficial to you. People always have and always will identify as the gender they want to be and that's nothing new. Biology has never even been the sole basis of gender to begin with, but our oversexed society wants people to feel violated. Found another stupid hoe.
I do my best as a mod to be fair. If anyone thinks I am not then feel free to contact Mu. I am a forum member too with my own opinions. I also have a life outside the forum so I can't be on every little thing. I use my own discretion. Not to mention I come back after being away to find things way more offensive than what she has posted in this thread. I am not playing favorites here since I hardly know QT. She did not get a very warm welcome just because a few people found her directness/openness about how she perceives herself (in the beginning) offensive or something. A lot of you people are adults and should be able to moderate yourselves for the most part. You want an open forum but only when it suits you. Not when someone disagrees with you. By "you" I mean a general you. There are many teens here as well who I tend to give a bit more slack at first. I will use my discretion on how to handle them when I feel they need a reminder of the rules.
Some things just skirt the rules as you know. You were given an opportunity at one time to be a mod but decided not to. You could have interpreted the rules and then enforced them as you saw fit. No one wants to be a mod because it is thankless position to be in and that is why most have given up on any strict modding (other than making sure the forum is not overwhelmed with spam). If you want to be a mod contact Mu and tell him you think you can do a better job. That goes for anyone else who has complaints about the mods. The people who complain the most about mods often find themselves in the middle of conflict. They could easily take care of the problem by controlling their own behavior and not looking for mods to punish anyone that hurts their feelings. I am not say this last part about you. Just an over all observation.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
Open aggression and insults, how very masculine of you
Calling someone a "stupid hoe" or "fat fuck" is not skirting the rules. Nor is starting a thread solely to attack other members.
If queentiger's behavior in this thread isn't going to be dealt with somehow, then I request that you ban me until further notice. This forum has long lost any of its redeeming qualities.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
I mean sure my post was blunt and impolite - but I don't think calling someone who likely doesn't have a disability retarded is the same as making a transphobic attack against an actual trans person on a thread that had nothing to do with it is really the same
and I don't think you realise that (or you do and are just being petty)
and like what I also notice a lot of people online do is they say something transphobic and then get surprised when I actually respond and they get like "b-b-but you can't say that it's rude"
You know you can't please all the people all the time. To be very blunt you're a case in point. Someone I have seen making snarky comments about mods several times. You troll constantly and get into conflict with various forum members yourself. I have noticed you thanking posts of people trying to troll me or who start conflict with me, jump in to back them up and so on. On any other forum you would have been banned long ago. Take the win before I change my mind on strict modding.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
I've never been banned once on any other forum, and I've been on some way longer than this. I've never even been banned from Facebook despite all the Community Standards posts. Rather than caring about how many people like you, it's better to have the right people like you and as they say, "If you build it, they will come."
I've changed my mind, I think EIE is a better contender for you than SLE, not really seeing LIE either.
The reason I am getting EIE over LIE is because you don't vibe like one, I mean, you really vibe like EIE 3w4s I have known, though I guess the 3w4 can be what causes the same vibe I sense in you as those EIE 3w4s I am thinking of.
Still, I have come across a few LIEs on forums who self-typed as 3w4s, and I think I few I know irl might be 3s, I get a very different vibe. The speech is different in LIEs, for instance.
I can clarify what I mean in more detail if you want.
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Keep in mind I don't know you very well so take all this with a grain of salt.
I just see you as reflecting the values of society (Fe) more than your own internal code of values (Fi). I see this in the way you express yourself, not in what you choose to say, but how you say it.
When you say "anyone who types me as these things literally doesn't get an opinion", I think you're joking and not being literal. To an Fi user this might seem odd and even two faced because you use a word to influence people in a way that seems insincere, but to a beta type this probably feels just like normal pep talk lol.
I could probably find other examples, but I think you get where I'm coming from with this : you seem to express general values of society (Fe) and not subjective, personal values.
Of course this might require you to look over the defintions of what this means in socionics, ie the values of society vs subjective values and how this manifests itself.
Check this out : http://wikisocion.net/en/index.php?title=Vocabulary Look at the examples for Fe and Fi and tell me what you think wrt to your type.
This is where I get the "general vibe" I am talking about above. Often I have an impression about someone's type but it's difficult to put into words, but when I do put it into words it makes sense (well, in this case, hopefully at least lol).
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I see, I definitely have no issue influencing/manipulating others. However couldn't that go both ways though? Like society in general probably would have a problem with that. And I took it upon myself to not only read those two, but also read some of the other functions (mainly Te vs Ti) and I definitely think the Te one is more applicable to me in terms of a real life setting.