I recently just broke up with a boyfriend of 2 years. It was not pretty. Basically, he told me i had no social skills and would never amount to much because of it. Needless to say, my confidence is just about down the drain right now because I never percieved myself as such. I've typed him as being an INFP. He would always ramble on about intellectual things and politics and world issues and feelings...things i couldn't care less about basically. I think towards the end we were both just hanging on out of habit but today we both exploded. Very hurtful words were exchanged from both parties.
I'm just a very quiet person by nature that likes to listen instead of interact. All my life i've been told i'm basically socially incompitent and it's reallly starting to eat at me. I DO have feelings, it's just impossible for me to show them. I'm so afraid i'll just continue this cycle of never connecting with anyone and being alone forever. I need a confidence boost, tell me i'm not alone ? : (