How nice would you rate yourself? Nice as in even vulnerable, head over heels sorta, i'll do anything for you nice? I have this soft spot for people who are not as priviliged and suffering perhaps and that's not a good thing 'cause they might take advantage of me. So now I'm not gonna be nice. I feel too vulnerable and I think I crossed the line that I can't just drop walls and be nice to people who don't deserve it? Because I read slava's post and I was like awww, poor lonely estp, so alone. But no no, I must not think that way. As I get older, I'm more and more reluctant to go out of my way to be nice to someone. It makes me feel paranoid and used even if they aren't. I'm much more comfortable with I'll give you this if you give me that and I'm more aware of it. A natural progression, you think? No one stays nice for too long.