Fi types, especially J ones, prefer to follow and protect common moral laws as the opposite annoys people. Fi types do not like to annoy the most. And moral laws are made as a compromise so people annoyed each other the least.
ESI are the least tolerant when someone behaves badly. If you do something "bad" and they depend on you (for example, when you work together) - they the first will condemn you, mb publicly, to inspire the guilt and will prefer to keep away from you as potentional threat. Unlike N types - ESI are surface in moral evaluations, so when they notice something even minor is wrong they become overprecautios to distance from that. ESI are suspicious people and the most they see is how people act in Fi regions, while Fi regions strongly crosses with morality. ESI may act roughly - to be rude and direct to express own emotional relation to you if you'll hurt them or someone strongly. This may suprise as in general they prefer to be nice with everyone until the last moment or when see extraordinal and then explode. It's what Lynx showed here, being generally not conflicting in my perception - he did the rude conflict with you alike without good reasons (I suspect he also had problems outside of the forum to make him more angree to react so much on so minor).
As an example of moral control. People do not like when someone lies to them or fools them - that annoys and also that is against common moral - such cases will catch the attention of base Fi the most. If you'll break a vow and also hurt them - base Fi will guilt you and then may kick away by different ways. Cheat in doing of your work so more load went to others and they'll think about you as a shit. Do something really bad to others against the rules and they'll catch you.
, may try to fix you, to discuss you with others or to remove away. Base Fi try to make emotional relations of people better, so anything what annoys and upsets - is what they'd want to fix the most.
> don't make a fuss imposing strict rules
ESI mb said the most moralist people. While they are not holly, but with a pleasure will "punch" you for doing something bad. When that bad hurts or may hurt other people feelings. Unlike Fe type which have more formal moral ("be decent"), Fi types react on what hurts indeed ("be nice").
In the situation you've exchanged by punches in F region. It's strong region of the both of you so seems noone will change own opinion.
Anyone has "own truth". And anyone mistakes partly, as tends to see from own point.
I've pointed on typing use of your conversation as you behaved naturally - it's the most interesting data for typing. While your impressions about Lynx - as you have base N - were rather classical about ESIs.