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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    I do think that our instincts work in all aspects of our lives, and that is the sx drive so to speak, so those with lower drive would not experience this as much imo. Everyone has and uses all 3 of the instincts like the video @Aylen posted went into, so any kind of passionate interest has elements of sx in it. However, I think those with sx primary are the ones who go full-on obsessive about things like you said, "being helplessly drawn back"
    Ok, that was my hunch as well. I just didn't know if that was the case in experience. For the most part I have not seen sx lasts being this obsessive about things. They're always more responsible than I tend to be. I've noticed so/sx and sp/sx types have a quality of obsessiveness to them more than sx lasts too.

    Well, with my friends, it's mostly social instinct in play. I want to connect, and be with them, enjoy their company and get to know them, and it's not in the same way that I would if I was interested in them romantically. I really only go all-in when the people are romantic interests. Trust, understanding and a sense of togetherness or camaraderie with someone is really what I like about platonic friendships, and all of those things fall into the social realm. (I added an sx-friendship explanation because some people were saying they directed their sx into their friendships. Mine goes into my mental interests and my romantic relationships but not noticeably into my friendships)
    Yes, I am the same. I do sometimes find myself being attracted to certain friends, even if I'm not interested in them for the purpose of a romantic relationship, if that connection or spark is there. Friends can sometimes get the wrong impression based on that too.

    Yes, I agree, and do think that it can be mental as well. It's a draw or a hook like you said, something that pulls you in completely.

    I agree with all of this as well. I don't think that looking sexy or provocative is a requirement, especially because it is selective, and like you said if you already have someone why would you still be sending out all those signals? I think though that there's an energy involved, and it's not even necessarily physical, it's not what a person looks like nor is it about being physically attractive in general, it's about libido in the psychological sense not the physical sense, as in an energy propelling you towards (or away from) something or someone. I think this can also be in areas other than interpersonal relationships, but I think this energy can be read by others, that it comes out especially when you're focused on your interest, but is still apparent in the background otherwise to those who are aware of it.
    Can you say more about this, or give an example of how this energy looks to others ("I think this energy can be read by others")? I think I know what you mean, but perhaps to make it more concrete. Thanks a lot for your response!

    Quote Originally Posted by wonderland View Post
    I think that "sex dripping out of eyes" is more in the eye of the beholder.
    Just imagine an Sx 5 struting their stuff tryn'a get laid... Some types are much more about mind connection than genital connection.
    Sx is attraction, but also repulsion. Not interested, no merging.
    Exactly lol.
    Last edited by Blue; 01-20-2019 at 10:35 PM.

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