Quote Originally Posted by Neokortex View Post
Well, it's about my memory of my interaction with you. You write that I intimidated you by askinge details about your sex life. Now, there's a history and context missing from that statement. I don't just walk up to people and ask them right away about their sex lives. Or if something similar happened, than there may already have been a conversation in which you were divulging your sex life. I recall asking for more detail about sthing you posted for sone else, yet I don't remember you directly refusing interaction but ghosting me instead. What stayed with me about you is that you were a very elusive, sneaky person who came forth with a bold statement, then were unwilling to back it up.

I feel that your magnification of this voyeur aspect is to deflect from your exploitation of Enneagram theories for building your social facade online. While it can be impossible that you just didn't feel like answering a stranger, more facts point towards the latter. Facts like you being part of 9 forum groups; then, having your visitor messages and friends page hidden (I'd wager you have a lot, seeing how well you get along with others). These, along with having had various monikers, all suggest that you very consciously lead a very active social life here on 16types. Heck, you may even have multiple accounts.

And your helpfulness may be also for gaining social status. But insider you're very pragmatic, would leave these people with your debts if found a better group.
I see you are going to continue with your trolling here as you did in the sx/sp thread. I don't owe you an explanation of why I changed usernames or how many friends I have. I do not have multiple accounts but if you do let me know so I can merge them with this one.

It’s really great you are still so dense you can’t see the forest for the trees. You can’t distinguish foresight and/or Fe from social instinct and you can’t get a sense of interpersonal distance or take a hint. EII huh? You can start with this and read on if you really want to refresh your memory.

http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...=1#post1175017


Quote Originally Posted by Neokortex View Post
Well, put simply: there's version A: that you're Sx/Sp in a thread where nobody else is and option B: you're not Sx/Sp in a forum where everybody else is. Now the reason I'd opt for A is that cooperation and teamwork is a large part of how humans copycat and pass on culture, share responsibility, maintain systems of infrastructure. Without "being social" fandom would not exist. So if Sx/Sps were to be defined as staunch individualists, then why fandom of the same frame of reference, of the same (lower class) cultural register? It inevitably gets to the point where the spectacle falls apart. In my experience, when you're with an Sx first, it just feels right. You don't get offended on things social types do. Ofc, I'm not saying there aren't all kinds of versions. But for the most part, the patterns here show lust, gluttony 7w8, 8w7, 8w9, 9w8 in its most visceral. And 8 (assertiveness, agression, bravery) is actually really easy to be mistaken for Sx.
MY RESPONSE:

In reality it is neither A or B though.

I agree other things can be mistaken for sx instinct though. I only read some posts on this thread so I am not aware of all the social dynamics or whatever.
Quote Originally Posted by Neokortex View Post
I'm more aware, though, bc I checked the music videos. People just can't be farther from the empirical counterpart of these theories out there.

Then we gotta open another Sx/Sp thread for some serious exchange since I couldn't find any other "general" Sx/Sp threads out there. On a 2nd thought, maybe 3 Sx/Sp threads: for Head, Heart & Gut centers.

Point is: that even though some people seem to "get it," the thread doesn't really contain any Sx/Sp behavior from the part of the users. They aren't locking on each other like some bloodsuckin' goatsuckin' chupacabras. If you get my drift. I asked you a question before about your own real life sx/sp behavior, you had mentioned some experimenting tricks on people-thing but you completely ignored it. Same thing here, opening up instead of speaking about something removed from their private self would require more intimacy btw the members. Would you be so kind and break the ice Miss Aylen? Bouncing ideas is okay but I think there're some who come here to meet other Sx/Sps. For Real. To hunt down a partner. :-P Find a friend.
MY RESPONSE:

I remember you asked me for something in another thread when I was not really in a mood for sharing. You might have gotten a response if you asked in pm. Depending on whether or not I was feeling open. I don't personally come to this thread looking for other sx/sp. I can't feel forced to open up or connect. That might cause me to shut down. It is something that happens spontaneously and organically. Opening up to the whole forum does not feel "intimate" or comfortable in any way. I know I have posted quite a few things that people might take as oversharing but, generally, I think about those posts, soon after, then delete them.

I feel my posts are usually measured so I don't alienate myself completely. Like I said I don't feel a lot of people can relate to my experiences but those who do, or want to, end up finding me. I am not looking for any social approval. It is nice when someone relates but it is more about self expression for me. I have been very open about myself with select people on this forum and as far as I am concerned those are the people who cared enough to get to know me and not use me as a social experiment.

So anyway while I was responding to you I hit some weird key combination that caused this to pop up full screen. I don't even know where it came from but it was a freaky enough coincidence that I feel compelled to share it. :/



I have ghosts...

Edit: I am sure of my stacking but being sx/sp does not mean I want to merge/connect with EVERYONE.

You retyped me both sp/sx 5 and a soc 9 later in another post. Your responses and posts in the sx/sp were nothing more than begging for some social interaction and finding new friends according to you. You wanted to socialize and connect. I told you then there were other threads for that and people were just expressing their perception of the instinct in that thread so you asked me about mine. You first said it was more likely I was the only sx/sp in a thread of socials. When I didn’t give you what you wanted a battletyping ensued between us until I had enough of you and pretty much told you to fuck off. Then you went on to ask some other woman about her boobs in the thread.

No offense but you are not skilled enough to gaslight me with your trolling. Go watch Beauty and the Beast for the 100th time instead of posting your incoherent opinions in a thread meant to sort the misconceptions.

Do you think all this validates your self typing of,
“EII
Tritype (9)461: 4w3 so/sp 6w7 sx/sp 1w2 sp/so(?)- classical "modern liberal" social taboo / cultural critic”?

Better get sol’s approval first or it doesn’t count. How you see yourself as the expert on sx/sp or sexual instinct is beyond me.

I guess that is up to the reader to decide if you are. I don’t need your help with typing myself. We all have all three instincts and it is a matter of prioritizing. I know what I prioritize and I have used the material for self development.

What you are doing is a ploy you use to get others to keep interacting. If you think my ability to read you is just social instinct then refer back to my first paragraph above. Seriously put your typings of others in the appropriate threads whether it is enneagram or socionics and let DA have this thread to sort misconceptions and her instincts since you are only adding more nonsense as usual. I don't do tritype anymore just so you know. The details are in the enneagram thread.

If you want me to move this to enneagram typing thread @Director Abbie I will.