Okay, I don't mean to invalidate what the sexual instinct means to you or how you define it.
I am saying that that's not all there is to it. Some people are going to be less than satisfied with your description. Doesn't mean that you are wrong or that there is something wrong with your description!

But that others aren't necessarily wrong either. I already cleared up earlier how I thought you were misunderstanding me, hope that's helpful as to what I meant.
Both positions are correct. There is no need to fight.