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    Default Which IM is getting turned on?

    Maybe Se, but generally speaking men get turned on by what they see. What about women?

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    From my limited experience, I would say that women are pretty reliably attracted to displays of their dual-seeking function.

    However, this is different from what turns them on. I seem to be completely incapable of predicting that, and have to either ask or go by trial and error. And there have been some errors....

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    IIRC I thought the HA and dual seeking functions were the functions that turn people on.
    Last edited by Cybernetic; 12-18-2018 at 04:29 PM. Reason: Got my terminology mixed up.

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    such a limiting question. Especially when you already think that men are nothing but their eyes.

    people are definitely not that boring and socionics applied in this way is misleading

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    Quote Originally Posted by Olimpia View Post
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    That wasn't the question though. The question is what element it's related to. Arousal could be plausibly linked to Se (sensory desire) + Fe (the effect on one's state it produces), with some Si as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thehotelambush View Post
    That wasn't the question though. The question is what element it's related to. Arousal could be plausibly linked to Se (sensory desire) + Fe (the effect on one's state it produces), with some Si as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyber View Post
    IIRC I thought the suggestive and dual seeking functions were the functions that turn people on.
    That's the same function. And no not really, it's more of a deep psychological need.

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    lol

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    I like Si, if that's what you are asking.

    Getting "turned on" shouldn't be related to one specific functional element. That suggests other dynamics are somehow not as much of a "turn on" or whatever, that's not how it works, I don't think.

    There's different types of "erotic behavior" you might want to look into, if you are interested.

    Also, the descriptions about how types "metabolize" sexual information I think is talking about how they consciously make sense of it, how it manifests in their behavior, etc. Otherwise, sexuality is pretty human, everyone is motivated by it to the same extent, unconsciously.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thehotelambush View Post
    That wasn't the question though. The question is what element it's related to.
    From types point, the answer implied that IR influence on what functions attract more of the interest.
    Activity in weak functions should attract more, including for seeking friendship and romances. In the aspect of a sympathy, not just an interest, - it's more about valued weak functions.

    > Arousal could be plausibly linked to Se (sensory desire) + Fe (the effect on one's state it produces), with some Si as well.

    Those ones are weak for LII - the type which mb just your case
    For example, Fe produces worse effect on Te types than Fi related emotions.
    Duality traits may turn on the most, in personal part. For example, I like when women are cute, shy and quiet - introverted traits. Not clear about J/P in nonverbal impressions - mb neutral trait for sexual interest.

    Itself, "sensory desire", sexual arousment, aestethical sympathy is more Si, as it's subjective state and evaluation. To Se relates a wish to get someone or something, mb to be attracted to some objective traits (like only some colors of hairs).

    Quote Originally Posted by thehotelambush View Post
    That's the same function. And no not really, it's more of a deep psychological need.
    And that "deep psychological need" is linked with the degree of sexual attraction which will be supressed in case of negative influence there and the opposite - with positive you'll get higher sexual interest. IR is one of factors of sexual interest and sexual energization.
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