Alpha NTs & Sexual Impulse (ENTp,INTj sexuality)

[vesstheastralsilky]

If the ILE's that I know are any indication, then at a point where you think they should slow down, whisper in their ears that you want to get married and have lots of kids.

That should do it.

Oh hey now

[Adam Strange]

Oh hey now

Truth.

But actually, your best strategy to get an ILE is probably to indulge him and give him lots of incredible sex and cookies and never mention kids.
Once he is stuck on you, then you can tell him what will be, since you are the boss in the relationship.

[vesstheastralsilky]

Truth.

Idk. Maybe for some but the intent isn't to destroy the moment either.

My fiance is LII if not ILE and he's actually very eager to have children soon. Yet he lives in another culture where society is from different from American life these days. And he loves his family very much. We still haven't met in person yet. So frustrating. I'm still awaiting passport approval since September.

[WinnieW]

But actually, your best strategy to get an ILE is probably to indulge him and give him lots of incredible sex and cookies and never mention kids.

Much better, Adam, your first proposal is more likely the coitus exitus strategy for an ILE.

[Adam Strange]

Much better, Adam, your first proposal is more likely the coitus exitus strategy for an ILE.

Yeah, @WinnieW, I had to change that when realized that it wouldn't just slow him down, but would probably shift him into full reverse.

[sbbds]

@vesstheastralsilky Alpha NTs are basically unphysical so simply fucking them regularly will give them some rare extra exercise and make them stronger and increase their ability to control their bodies. PS I thought my boyfriend was LII at first too for a while coincidentally but not saying it’s the case for your situation necessarily.

PPS This wasn’t the problem I thought it might be, bizarrely enough. The problem you’re talking about now. But PM if you want to discuss with me in detail.