How does it manifest in you guys? Is it really all it's cracked up to be? (sorry if this kind of discussion has already been played out in another thread, I know I've seen it discussed).
Before I met my husband, these are the things that always attracted me to others.
--Witty/funny/quick, entertaining, understanding, positive/optimistic, "open-minded", understands me, doesn't ruminate, easily moves on, handles life's affairs with ease, makes life look easy. (I've had two relationships in my life, one was with an ESFp and the other with an ESTp. Both are Se....hmmm)
What my husband was looking for:
--Thoughtful, considerate, smart, fun-loving, understanding, amused by my sense of humor, kind, genuine, open-minded, flexible, good lay (It would be bias of me to omit/edit his responses).
Do you guys see your dual seeking function, matching "the descriptions" of your dual? Can you give examples, either way. If the answer is no, can you describe what you seek and how your dual lacks it.