Quote Originally Posted by Neokortex View Post
I meant "beta male," so not "alpha male" but more self-contained, nerdy. You can see self-pres in his body movements.
Ohh you meant "beta male" haha okay, difficult to know the difference on a Socionics forum
Interestingly I don't think he is a "beta male". He stood up for himself and could actually be sort of charming.
Hm I don't "see self-pres", I just see low sensing, but fair enough.

Quote Originally Posted by Neokortex View Post
Depends on what you mean by "sexual attraction" and "passion." I just look at what social position the person takes, whether it's more adaptive to others or if she's trying to be more dominating and individualistic at the same time. Swinton has her own 4w5 style (which is not about physical sexuality), yet she still have some of that audacity, brashness, to go public with it and take it on with Steven Colbert ("transmitting instinct"). In the latter and in the vitality with which she does it can I find her "passionate" and "sexually attractive."
So/Sp can be socially outspoken, Amal Clooney would be an example of an So/Sp 1 imo, she is an outspoken lawyer. She actually seems more in touch with physical attraction in the way she dresses, but that could just boil down to her being Si ego (whereas Tilda is EII imo). So/Sp individuals, especially with a strong 3 fixation, can try to look sexually attractive in the eyes of society, but there will be a certain lack of fire behind it, it is more like they are bill boards rather than humans of the flesh. That impression is being doubled if the individual is Intuitive, like Tilda. She pretty much comes across more of an "image"/idea than a breathing, living person. She is not corporeal, nor "offensive" like SX tends to be. SX is the most competitive instinct, it will fight against others to breed with what they deem to be "the best" (they can get), and I don't see that fixation being at the forefront for her at all. She seems rather like an individual who would be fine with loose connections. SX seems to be last in her list of priorities.

Quote Originally Posted by Neokortex View Post
Read this from your blog and to me it reads like an Si dom's take on the flows.

Fair enough. But wouldn't I like your use of Ne more if I was Si dom?