Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12
Results 41 to 60 of 60

Thread: What do you do when you like someone?

  1. #41

    Join Date
    Jan 2017
    TIM
    SLE.Wait...Shit, EII
    Posts
    329
    Mentioned
    12 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Nothing, imagining how the relation would be like, get depressed about my condition, then get over it


  2. #42
    WinnieW's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2017
    TIM
    LII-Ne
    Posts
    1,387
    Mentioned
    36 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by para View Post
    The ESEs and SEIs i know are consistently good at creating this, it seems.
    Last edited by WinnieW; 01-14-2019 at 01:33 PM.

  3. #43
    Tearsofaclown's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2017
    Location
    New York
    TIM
    EIE
    Posts
    449
    Mentioned
    32 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Go out of my way to make sure they don't know. I want her to hate me and not have hairy armpits.

    “An elegant woman is a woman who despises you and has no hair under her arms.” -Salvador Dali

    I act too cool to care and if I do interact I act like a know it all. Cuz I am.
    "And in those days shall men seek death, and shall not find it, and shall desire to die, and death shall flee from them."

  4. #44
    Tearsofaclown's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2017
    Location
    New York
    TIM
    EIE
    Posts
    449
    Mentioned
    32 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Karatos View Post
    I troll them a little bit and apologize if it didn't go over well.
    I'm definitely guilty of this. It is just playful but I have had to apologize. It's like when you are a little kid and like a girl. You pull her hair or pinch her. Annoy her. If I am arguing with you over a period of time I probably like you in some way. It can be like flirting to me.
    "And in those days shall men seek death, and shall not find it, and shall desire to die, and death shall flee from them."

  5. #45
    Adam Strange's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2015
    Location
    Midwest, USA
    TIM
    ENTJ-1Te 8w7 sx/so
    Posts
    6,183
    Mentioned
    717 Post(s)
    Tagged
    2 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Tearsofaclown View Post
    I'm definitely guilty of this. It is just playful but I have had to apologize. It's like when you are a little kid and like a girl. You pull her hair or pinch her. Annoy her. If I am arguing with you over a period of time I probably like you in some way. It can be like flirting to me.
    Man, I can relate.

    I held the elevator door for this ESI whom I've seen before but not talked to, and she got in and thanked me. I told her I didn't want the elevator to have to make two trips.
    Later, I saw her in the hall, squinting at her phone and to make conversation, I said "You know, they make bigger phones". She didn't look up, she didn't react, nothing about her changed except she started hating me.

    Talk about tough audiences.

  6. #46
    Tearsofaclown's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2017
    Location
    New York
    TIM
    EIE
    Posts
    449
    Mentioned
    32 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    Man, I can relate.

    I held the elevator door for this ESI whom I've seen before but not talked to, and she got in and thanked me. I told her I didn't want the elevator to have to make two trips.
    Later, I saw her in the hall, squinting at her phone and to make conversation, I said "You know, they make bigger phones". She didn't look up, she didn't react, nothing about her changed except she started hating me.

    Talk about tough audiences.

    When I was a little kid, probably around ten, we went swimming. My family and my sister brought her friend. I'm the big brother so I am too cool for them but my sister's friend doesn't know this. We basically fought all day. She stood up to me. On the way home my mom said, "It's funny how much you like that girl." I was like "What?! I can't stand her." But my mom was right. I didn't know it at the time.
    "And in those days shall men seek death, and shall not find it, and shall desire to die, and death shall flee from them."

  7. #47
    a two horned unicorn renegade Heretic 007's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2015
    Location
    Sol's emo club
    TIM
    ILE-C-I
    Posts
    4,796
    Mentioned
    206 Post(s)
    Tagged
    2 Thread(s)

    Default

    What is wrong with you people? Or maybe: What is wrong with people?

    Measuring you right now

  8. #48
    We are approximately 40% related to mice. Bone Dollar's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2015
    Location
    Washington D.C.
    TIM
    IxFj-8w9
    Posts
    103
    Mentioned
    12 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by para View Post
    I especially relate to the description of ''LII will suddenly become lively, goofy and jovial when around positive Fe atmosphere.''

    The ESEs and SEIs i know are consistently good at creating this, it seems.
    The most fun I had was with a drunk LII.

  9. #49

    Join Date
    May 2007
    Location
    MI
    TIM
    IEI-Ni
    Posts
    10,817
    Mentioned
    272 Post(s)
    Tagged
    2 Thread(s)

    Default

    Hmm. I think I try extra hard to balance expressing myself vs being careful what I say around them, being more in-tune with what might hurt their feelings and try to stop saying those things. As I want good Fi/Fe relations with the person. I actually like them (which I think is pretty rare) and so I don't want to say or do anything to upset them.

    Bertrand: "This just makes you a Fe manipulative piece of shit."

    Well yeah, I'm sure it does.

    If I don't like a person, I will just go all out brutally sometimes in writing (like a make-believe SLE I guess) or rally other people to hate them with me, if I don't have the Se or Te to take them down myself. Then I'm kind of 'myself' in this narcissistic way where I don't really take the other person's perceptions into consideration at all lol, except for maybe in a mocking way.

  10. #50
    Darn Socks Abbie the Child's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2008
    Location
    Southwest USA
    TIM
    LSE
    Posts
    7,063
    Mentioned
    348 Post(s)
    Tagged
    2 Thread(s)

    Default

    I say, "Hi." Or, "Hi!" or, "Hello!" or, "Terve, ihminen." Or, "Person. I'm a person too." or, "I like your cheekbones/knuckles/face/shoelaces/etc."

    Whether I already know them or not is unrelated. So is whether I'm already talking to them at the time. I have asked a friend to be my friend mid-conversation. It's safer because they already agreed once so they're not as likely to decline.

    I'll also offer to give them something. Origami, knitting, etc. And if they reject everything I try to offer I feel like I'm being rejected.

    LSE
    1-6-2 so/sx
    Johari Nohari

    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

  11. #51
    Vizany's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2018
    Location
    blumpfistan
    TIM
    epic gamer
    Posts
    179
    Mentioned
    35 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Try to sneak in glances at her butt but nothing else because half of my family would lose it if I got a girlfriend right now.
    "She will distract you from your studies...She looked at me all weird so she must hate us...She is going to take your money...I don't like her tastes in music so she must be a demon...If you keep talking to her I will take away all your electronics...You will never be allowed outside without someone I am in contact with again..."
    R14kkDj.png
    Last edited by Vizany; 01-16-2019 at 10:52 PM.

  12. #52

    Join Date
    Jan 2019
    Posts
    105
    Mentioned
    3 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Depends on what I want.

  13. #53
    idontgiveaf's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2017
    Posts
    2,873
    Mentioned
    165 Post(s)
    Tagged
    2 Thread(s)

    Default

    My panties gets wet and I get aggressive when I like someone

  14. #54

    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Posts
    11,248
    Mentioned
    1019 Post(s)
    Tagged
    3 Thread(s)

    Default

    for example, I think how to help, to care
    not always people like some kinds of help, though
    Types examples: video bloggers, actors

  15. #55
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    24,778
    Mentioned
    603 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    I told my husband "we are a good fit for one another." He married me three days after dating. That's LSE/EII relationship
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  16. #56
    Space's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2014
    Location
    Europe
    Posts
    1,219
    Mentioned
    148 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Nothing, wait and see if they notice, if they don't... fuck 'em.
    No price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.


  17. #57
    DRANG NACH BETA NF Oppai Anschluss's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2018
    Location
    In the place
    TIM
    Beta ST 683 sx/so
    Posts
    397
    Mentioned
    25 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Initiate conversation more, make sure to take opportunities or create opportunities for us to be around each other more, laugh and smile more, turn up the banter and start gauging reactions more instead of paying almost no attention at all.
    Beta ST 6w5 8w9 3w4 sx/so

    Every problem on earth can be solved by the liberal application of ordnance

    "Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather he must recognize that it is he who is asked. In a word, each man is questioned by life; and he can only answer to life by answering for his own life."


  18. #58

    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Posts
    3,359
    Mentioned
    109 Post(s)
    Tagged
    1 Thread(s)

    Default

    When I was a teenager I liked this girl, so I asked her to dissect a deer heart with me for extra credit.

  19. #59
    f.k.a Oprah sbbds's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2018
    TIM
    SLE
    Posts
    2,196
    Mentioned
    153 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default Speaking Romantically Here (I answered for otherwise in a previous post)

    I’m quick to initiate conversation and follow through with initiating sexual intimacy, even pressuring with sexual intimacy at times.

    Show vegana, open bobs basically. Well, I get guys to do the male equivalent of it. When men initiate sexual intimacy with me, that feels as if it’s an imposition and I generally dislike it, but if I am the one to do it, it feels liberating and satisfying for me. Gender roles can GTFO from my sex life.

    I am definitely more masculine than most men wrt this. My impulses are satisfied more easily too due to modern social constructs. In the past, I had an SLE ex friend and lover who seemed perplexed by my behaviour as a woman.

    I can see how this could devalue me in most environments in society, but I don’t care. I get whatever I want most in life, and that’s what’s most important.

    Also, I basically most prefer men who are the most like a beautiful woman.
    Last edited by sbbds; 01-23-2019 at 09:49 AM.

  20. #60

    Join Date
    Feb 2018
    Posts
    552
    Mentioned
    24 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by para View Post
    I especially relate to the description of ''LII will suddenly become lively, goofy and jovial when around positive Fe atmosphere.''

    The ESEs and SEIs i know are consistently good at creating this, it seems.
    I have seen this in person and it always makes me tilt my head like a confused dog. o.0?

Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •