What do you do when you like someone?

[Tearsofaclown]

Go out of my way to make sure they don't know. I want her to hate me and not have hairy armpits.

“An elegant woman is a woman who despises you and has no hair under her arms.” -Salvador Dali

I act too cool to care and if I do interact I act like a know it all. Cuz I am.

[Tearsofaclown]

I troll them a little bit and apologize if it didn't go over well.

I'm definitely guilty of this. It is just playful but I have had to apologize. It's like when you are a little kid and like a girl. You pull her hair or pinch her. Annoy her. If I am arguing with you over a period of time I probably like you in some way. It can be like flirting to me.

[Adam Strange]

I'm definitely guilty of this. It is just playful but I have had to apologize. It's like when you are a little kid and like a girl. You pull her hair or pinch her. Annoy her. If I am arguing with you over a period of time I probably like you in some way. It can be like flirting to me.

Man, I can relate.

I held the elevator door for this ESI whom I've seen before but not talked to, and she got in and thanked me. I told her I didn't want the elevator to have to make two trips.
Later, I saw her in the hall, squinting at her phone and to make conversation, I said "You know, they make bigger phones". She didn't look up, she didn't react, nothing about her changed except she started hating me.

Talk about tough audiences.

[Tearsofaclown]

Man, I can relate.

I held the elevator door for this ESI whom I've seen before but not talked to, and she got in and thanked me. I told her I didn't want the elevator to have to make two trips.
Later, I saw her in the hall, squinting at her phone and to make conversation, I said "You know, they make bigger phones". She didn't look up, she didn't react, nothing about her changed except she started hating me.

Talk about tough audiences.

When I was a little kid, probably around ten, we went swimming. My family and my sister brought her friend. I'm the big brother so I am too cool for them but my sister's friend doesn't know this. We basically fought all day. She stood up to me. On the way home my mom said, "It's funny how much you like that girl." I was like "What?! I can't stand her." But my mom was right. I didn't know it at the time.

[Sanguine Miasma]

What is wrong with you people? Or maybe: What is wrong with people?

[Living 2Day]

I especially relate to the description of ''LII will suddenly become lively, goofy and jovial when around positive Fe atmosphere.''

The ESEs and SEIs i know are consistently good at creating this, it seems.

The most fun I had was with a drunk LII.

[Shazaam]

Hmm. I think I try extra hard to balance expressing myself vs being careful what I say around them, being more in-tune with what might hurt their feelings and try to stop saying those things. As I want good Fi/Fe relations with the person. I actually like them (which I think is pretty rare) and so I don't want to say or do anything to upset them.

Bertrand: "This just makes you a Fe manipulative piece of shit."

Well yeah, I'm sure it does.

If I don't like a person, I will just go all out brutally sometimes in writing (like a make-believe SLE I guess) or rally other people to hate them with me, if I don't have the Se or Te to take them down myself. Then I'm kind of 'myself' in this narcissistic way where I don't really take the other person's perceptions into consideration at all lol, except for maybe in a mocking way.

[DirectorAbbie]

I say, "Hi." Or, "Hi!" or, "Hello!" or, "Terve, ihminen." Or, "Person. I'm a person too." or, "I like your cheekbones/knuckles/face/shoelaces/etc."

Whether I already know them or not is unrelated. So is whether I'm already talking to them at the time. I have asked a friend to be my friend mid-conversation. It's safer because they already agreed once so they're not as likely to decline.

I'll also offer to give them something. Origami, knitting, etc. And if they reject everything I try to offer I feel like I'm being rejected.

[Cheebs]

Try to sneak in glances at her butt but nothing else because half of my family would lose it if I got a girlfriend right now.
"She will distract you from your studies...She looked at me all weird so she must hate us...She is going to take your money...I don't like her tastes in music so she must be a demon...If you keep talking to her I will take away all your electronics...You will never be allowed outside without someone I am in contact with again..."
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[Jaqen]

Depends on what I want.

[idontgiveaf]

My panties gets wet and I get aggressive when I like someone

[Sol]

for example, I think how to help, to care
not always people like some kinds of help, though

[Beautiful sky]

I told my husband "we are a good fit for one another." He married me three days after dating. That's LSE/EII relationship

[Fay]

Nothing, wait and see if they notice, if they don't... fuck 'em.

[Oppai Anschluss]

Initiate conversation more, make sure to take opportunities or create opportunities for us to be around each other more, laugh and smile more, turn up the banter and start gauging reactions more instead of paying almost no attention at all.

[Skepsis]

When I was a teenager I liked this girl, so I asked her to dissect a deer heart with me for extra credit.

[sbbds]

I’m quick to initiate conversation and follow through with initiating sexual intimacy, even pressuring with sexual intimacy at times.

Show vegana, open bobs basically. Well, I get guys to do the male equivalent of it. When men initiate sexual intimacy with me, that feels as if it’s an imposition and I generally dislike it, but if I am the one to do it, it feels liberating and satisfying for me. Gender roles can GTFO from my sex life.

I am definitely more masculine than most men wrt this. My impulses are satisfied more easily too due to modern social constructs. In the past, I had an SLE ex friend and lover who seemed perplexed by my behaviour as a woman.

I can see how this could devalue me in most environments in society, but I don’t care. I get whatever I want most in life, and that’s what’s most important.

Also, I basically most prefer men who are the most like a beautiful woman.

[Lord Pixel]

I especially relate to the description of ''LII will suddenly become lively, goofy and jovial when around positive Fe atmosphere.''

The ESEs and SEIs i know are consistently good at creating this, it seems.

I have seen this in person and it always makes me tilt my head like a confused dog. o.0?