No. I think that those who are less likely to fit into society's norms are also less touched by, less affected by the opinions and pressures of that society. In other words, they're not working against the grain, but following their own. (Iow they don't really care whether they seem feminine or masculine or think much about it.) And similar to Sol's sentiment, if you have someone who loves and appreciates you, who gives a damn what the rest of the world thinks?
Those who struggle the most are probably those who are trying to work against the pressures of society because they are so influenced by those pressures. imo. May also have to do with the environment you were raised in, whether your particular traits were accepted as okay or not. Overcoming early environmental pressures can be a real struggle for many people.


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