ILE-Ne or IEE-Ne. We need to figure this out.

Ok questions. When you are around people and engaging them in activities, does it a) feeling kind of chaotic where you especially appreciate calm friendly politeness from others as you try to get stuff done or b) feel like luck let's you schmooze more with making a deliberate impression on others to achieve certain results and not so task oriented like trying to do things for others? This is the Ti or Fi decider for you in this particular contextual situation.

Both types care what others think but ILE-Ne feels more stress being around people and for IEE it just kind of rolls off smooth in easy relations with others and again, less task/tactical energy being spent.