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    Member Questionnaire 1 (Daisy)
    What is beauty? What is love?
    I think of someting as beautiful when I see/feel harmoy. Love is a nice feeling, if it's love for anyone, then it is a great trait to have imo because you will always believe in the goodness of them. If it's romantic love, it doesn't last so it is not that important in my life.
    What are your most important values?
    Sincerity, loyality and kindness.
    Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
    I believe in God, because for me the idea that this complex universe was created by a force greater than everything is reasonable. Also without religion or spirituality, I think the weak people wouldn't have something to lean on, because many people are quite materialistic, and that's what is most valued to survive. But God see the motivations before the acts, so the weak people would believe that god will return their rights. I also think this world is quite in a losing game (especially if you choose to be a good person), so with religion, the losses you have inl life wouldn't mean much to you, and you'll able to achieve peace of mind and be grateful to whatever happens in life. Religion has many idealistic values and it fits how I think and feel very well. I'm pretty sure that if I was born in a non religious family, I would still have chosen to be spirituel and religious.
    Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
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    What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
    I had long conversations about my interests. I used to speak a lot about manga (when I first found it), I found many stories worth sharing with friends because of the message they send to the audience. I also speak a lot about people nature, it is a very interesting topic for me. I'm interested in psychology, mindfulness, neuropsychology, I enjoy reading about the relation beween our minds and our behaviors because it helps me understand people better (like socionics).
    Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
    Nein!
    What do you think of daily chores?
    Boring, tiring and waste of time but sadly we have to do them from time to time.
    Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
    I recently started reading Social Intelligence by Daniel Gueleman and the last movie I watched is Amelie (I dont watch many movies).

    Books I liked: The Giver, Brave New World, Khalil Gubran books.
    Movies I liked: Silent Voice, Amelie, Paprika.
    What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
    I cried many times when I saw unjustice before me or happening to me. It hurts me a lot. It is the worst feeling someone would experience imo. I remember I watched a movie when a character was wronged by many, I just was in a shitty mood for the rest of that day. I hate misunderstandings, like if only people would listen carefully to each other... but situations like this are complicated. I also cry after a tense situation.

    What has made me smile... nothing really comes to mind...I only remember months ago, I went to buy some stuff, and there was this man who was staring at me then staring at chocolate, he bought many and gave them to me and told me to give them to kids. That was very kind of him.
    Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
    Hmm I feel a sense of belonging either when I'm alone thinking, or when I'm with someone who share my same outlook on life at that period of time.
    What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
    People have told me that I can be very stubborn and I'm always convinced that my opinion is the true one. I'm also not a good communicator, I often get my ESE friend to talk in my place when we are outside, but even if I don't talk, people are not afraid to approach me, even the most closed off individuals.

    I seriously hate hating myself. I hate myself for not being able to say a firm word to someone when it is needed. I just want to kill myself at those moments because I feel like an idiot. I also don't like my lack of energy or motivation. I'm also really afraid and sensitive to criticism, because it makes me sink more into my self loathing and I tend to believe any criticism I get from people and cry for days because of it. I'm trying to work on loving myself, I'm def better than last years.
    What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
    People tell me that I'm very polite and kind with anyone. A good listener, capable of making someone arrive to a good conclusion or solution to her/his probem. I have been by told by my friends that I was able to show them something that had an effect on their life, like a movie, a book or just a sentence I say. I seem to know and give unconsciously the missing thing they need.

    I like my spontaneity. It makes me feel free, like if I'm mad, you will know I'm mad, if I'm sad you will know I'm sad, If I have a problem with you, you will know too, everything is written on my face. I don't really hide my feelings towards anything or anyone
    In what areas of your life would you like help?
    I'm not sure I know.
    Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
    Yes. I was made to stay in a country that I didn't like for a year, I could't form any friendships, or bring myself to do anything except for sleeping. I had zero energy. My relations sufffered. Everything was a mess. I didn't leave my room at all, no one would ask about me. I just slept almost all day, overthinking things, crying, my self-esteem got very low and I didn't have the desire to do anything. it was a dark place to be in.

    Now that I have moved from that place, I'm better. I just needed to remove some people from my life and get a fresh start in life in a new place and I learned from that experience. I learned how to depend on myself and I saw very dark sides of reality I haven't seen before.
    What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
    I get along with friendly, easy going and low key people. I don't like arrogant, pretentious, or quick to judge people.

    I get along with my ESE friend, she's very nice and comfortable to be with and when I didn't expect it, she was the one to help me in difficult situations. I feel very happy just hanging around her. I also get along with an SEI friend.

    I don't get along with SEEs, we both are not a fan of each other. They think I'm always hiding something or maybe lying, I don't really know why... I also don't get along with EIEs.
    How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
    In a partner, I like: loyality, strength, kindness. Those three are the most important. I appreciate an attentive person, someone who would be there for me when I need it
    If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
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    A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
    I have had happen to me few days ago. My inward reaction is quite normal? Like I expect people to not have same opinions, so it doesn't create any emotion in me I guess. I try to understand their point of view, see where they are coming from, if I didn't agree with it, I defend mine, if they didn't agree with mine, then they're free to believe what they want.
    Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
    I'm still forming my opinions about people and discovering things about them. For now, I think people are similar yet different at the same time. They are different in the way that they do not think similarly (the reason for many problems is thinking the other person thinks as you do), and they're similar in the way that we have some universal values we all strive to adhere to. I generally think people are good, even though there are fights, conflicts and all the bad things, it is all caused generally by misunderstandings, probably no one wants to harm the other, we need to be able to be above conflicts to actually see the goodness in each other, and so a better place to live in.

    The social problem is lack of self awareness.
    How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
    Hmm I usually stay friends with people who I have similar interests with. If not that, then just being comfortable with you is enough. I don't really expect much from people lol. Even my two friends, I only talk to them like once a week. The only thing that can make me back off from a friend is loss of trust or them not caring.

    Around friends, I'm usually talkative if the subject is interesting and won't shut up if I start talking. But if the topic is not interesting I'm just dead.
    How do you behave around strangers?
    it depends on the stranger, if I sense friendliness from him, I open up easily, but if he is just silent and calm and won't respond then I don't feel comfortable and stay quiet too.

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    IEE would be my guess, maybe EII, definitely NF. And it all sounds like a Ne blah blah blah. You also quite match profiles of other IEE from there.

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