@Sol
I feel like I view them (LSE) a little the way I view myself. I’m hard on myself. I fixate on my flaws. Personally, I don’t regard myself as a judgemental person. So to feel judgmental towards an LSE, (an LSE I like as a person) makes me realise/remember I am capable of such things. And do it more than I admit. A helpful reminder to not do it so much! To not judge people, to forgive them their selfish attitudes is how I aspire to be! I do judge people, which is ok coz it’s IEI judgement but I don’t want to do it too much to the point that I am blinded by it! Or unfairly judging people
Also to feel that way towards an innocent person reminds me of my own innocence. I view my personality as innocent and wanting to do good. Yet I am still very self-critical. Being hard on LSE reminds me how hard I am on myself. Being too hard on myself is just as bad as being too hard on other people. It’s unsustainable. If I feel too low and vulnerable, how can I trust and uplift people the way I want and need to?
I think the guy on the date may have been Estp. Nice chap. Hope to see him again.
And like I said he did remind me a little of EII. I only mean in a strange, impressionistic way. EII has a ‘mother’ quality to me, SLE has a ‘father’ quality to me (sometimes). We walked around and chatted randomly for hours. I wasn’t feeling well so the discussion wasn’t too intense. I was reminded of walking around my university town with my EII friend. Slightly strange conversation, you’re not quite sure where it’s going and feelings of affection, similar to how I feel with EII. (I was young back then, maybe quasi-identical friendship is easier when you’re young).
I see conflictors as having some similar qualities from my IEI perspective ESI and ILE are like beautiful works of art, SEE and LII are like super humans because of their intellect, SEI and LIE are long lost unattainable loves